My boyfriend and I stopped having sex on July 18, had a baby August 17, and still no sex and it's October 22. I want it, and have stopped bleeding 2 months ago. Still no interest. I think he thinks Ill get pregnant again, or else he's grossed out by the whole birth process. I leave him love notes, vibrating condoms, got norplant, wear sexy stuff, and exercised enough to lose all but 5 lbs. of weight. How do I get our sex life back on track ?
I want it all the time and he never does!

Hi, Take my advice take him to hotel some night get fillof your thurst .Show him some BF's
Along with you he will sure try him once again

I think maybe you should talk to your boyfriend and find out why he doesn't want to have sex?
That'd be the best idea, rather than guessing why not.
Tell him how you feel and hopefully you'll be having sex again in no time! :)

I think you should talk to your BF. You'll never know why he doesn't want it if you don't talk to him.
Good Luck and let us know how everything turns out. :)

He keeps changing the subject or says everythings OK, he's tired.

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Originally Posted by jennikins8900

My boyfriend and I stopped having sex on july 18, had a baby august 17, and still no sex and it's october 22. I want it, and have stopped bleeding 2 months ago. Still no interest. I think he thinks Ill get pregnant again, or else he's grossed out by the whole birth process. I leave him love notes, vibrating condoms, got norplant, wear sexy stuff, and exercised enough to lose all but 5 lbs. of weight. How do I get our sex life back on track ?
I want it all the time and he never does!

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Maybe you should agree to try a sexual act that you told him you'd never do... just to get him interested again. It worked for me when we had our kid. I agreed to anal sex one time. It got him back in the mood and we have normal sex all the time. Haven't had to do anal sex ever again. It just got him back in the mood. It might be worth a try.