Good Lord, why do I have to go through these changes? My husband is a Jeckyl and Hyde. He is torn between his mother and work and I always come last. He is a hypocrite. He professes to be dedicated to a religion that only includes him and his mother... and I come last. I have no idea what to do. If I leave him I am going to be losing all my money so I would need a really good divorce lawyer. I would like to be away from his mother, I love her but I do not like her. In fact ever since she moved near us I HATE her and my husband. She has gotten him as crazy as she is. She is a widow and has already confessed that her heart is "hardened" and she also has a mentally ill son who is bipolar. I am afraid my husband is becoming ill also. The pastor tried to break the cycle of generational curses yesterday in church. With all this going on my husband won't even take me away on vacation. I am afraid to leave my pet cat with his crazy mother and brother in fear of my cat running away. But now my MIL is trying to talk us out of going away in fear of leaving her alone with her bipolar son. Now my husband is telling me he might accept a music job in NC. That is his way of running away from the whole situation. Should I let him go? I can't even stand the site of him any more, so I don't give a dam. Instead of him and I becoming closer in our retirement years, we are drifting further apart because his mother has come to curse us. At this point all I can do is vent... the only person she listens to is the pastor... God forbid I give her advise. Well, at least she knows about the generational curses. Do you think I can get a separtion from this awful family without losing my share of my money? Thanks All I really want to do is spend some time away from his family. I can't believe his mother is pulling this don't leave me alone stunt. Why can't my husband see what they are doing to us?