I have been in a relationship for nearly 5 years. I'm 21 and we only do foreplay, I am not yet prepared for intercourse. These past 2 years I noticed that masturbating on my own feels much better than with my boyfriend. When he touches me I will spend 1hour until I reach orgasm but when I masturbate on my own it won't last longer than 5 minutes.

I love my boyfriend and I'll be really excited with him but I won't feel the same pleasure I feel when I am on my own. Sometimes I would want to see some pornographic pictures to help me enjoy my masturbation. Is this normal?

Is it a good sign to masturbate on your own even though you are in a relationship?:confused:

You are soooooo normal, my husband makes me feel good but I can make myself feel great. And I will admit to no one that I love to see porn when I masterbate. Don't ever expect a man to touch you in the exact way that you can, just relax and enjoy what he does and don't compare his hands to yours!

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Originally Posted by kate2

don't ever expect a man to touch you in the exact way that you can,

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Hello girls:

You haven't met the right man then. Fortunately, I'm a guy who's really interested in the mechanics of orgasm. Even MORE fortunately, I had lady teachers who wanted me to touch them just like they did themselves. I'm a great student and I learned reeeeeel good.

As a matter of fact, I believe I can make them/you feel better than they can themselves. Isn't that what true lovemaking should be? I think so.

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I think you should let your BF know what feels good. Teach him what you do. Watch some porn while he does it.

Maybe what he does to you is good but getting old. Try something new.

Good Luck :)

Of course you feel better with yourself than with your boyfriend. You know your body... you've been with you for 21 years... he's been with you for 5. And believe me, when it comes time to actually have a fully developed sexual relationship you will learn together... and he will learn how to make you feel amazing. But you're probably always going to feel great with yourself.