My mum really hates me and we had a little argument and now she hasn't spoken to me in ages. When she does talk to me, she says horrible things in a sly voice. I didn't even do anything wrong, I was just a little bit selfish that's all. And now that she's angry with me, my older sister is sucking up to her, and is ignoring me to just so her mommy will love her. She's making my life hell. I want to kill myself, because its all my fault. I don't hate her, I hate me. What should I do??

I would be as adult about this as possible and approach your Mom and say that you are sorry you love her and you want to make things better and see how she responds, don't worry about your older sister she'll regret what she's doing later in life when she's older

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Originally Posted by Meeee

My mum really hates me and we had a little arguement and now she hasnt spoken to me in ages. when she does talk to me, she says horrible things in a sly voice. i didnt even do anything wrong, i was just a little bit selfish thats all. and now that shes angry with me, my older sister is sucking up to her, and is ignoring me to just so her mommy will love her. shes making my life hell. i want to kill myself, because its all my fault. i dont hate her, i hate me. what should i do???????

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All you need to do is go to her and apologize and let her know in specail ways how sorry you are even if it's the most stupidest thing and if that doesn't work then just send her a letter telling her how much your sorry I mean one of them will work!♥♥

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Originally Posted by Meeee

My mum really hates me and we had a little arguement and now she hasnt spoken to me in ages. when she does talk to me, she says horrible things in a sly voice. i didnt even do anything wrong, i was just a little bit selfish thats all. and now that shes angry with me, my older sister is sucking up to her, and is ignoring me to just so her mommy will love her. shes making my life hell. i want to kill myself, because its all my fault. i dont hate her, i hate me. what should i do???????

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Well mother should be there through thick and thin sure you feel down with doubt in the back of your head about your mum love well, here how it goes we all do thing wrong in life it a part f being human but mother well a fact mother are pose to be there like I said so sorry to say yours mother not much of ones if she being the way she is with you.
And please to feel so down that you feel death the only answers is un true death bring sadness and bitterness and pain so what every make you feel it bring betterness is wrong so please don't take that road
Love jenny if you feel you need to talk my eyes are open and hears xx

My mum hate's me as well and I don't know why?

What do I do??

21lala please make your own post explaining why your mother hates you. It is too hard to answer both of you on the same post especially when you haven't given any examples or anything.

OP how old are you? Like I think it is a bit different if you are older and out of the house than if you are a teen at home.
Either case your mom should be more mature about things,
She may feel that you are hard to communicate with or she may feel that this is your nature and she doesn't know what to do.

The only thing you really can do is like Victoria said and apologize and make things right.
If this is her basic nature though, when you get are out on your own you might have to distance yourself.
I think of moms like this as the mother on Everybody Loves Ray. Sometimes with moms like her you have to find a way to work around their personality manipulating you without them realizing what you are doing