Well I'm with this guy, we have been seeing each other for about 4 months now, we had sex the first night we met and it went on from there.
His best friend is my ex who was using me for sex for 10 months, I'm still in love with this guy and would do anything to have him back even if he did use me.
Im not in love with my new boyfriend but he's in love with me. Iv'e cheated on this boyfriend several times with my old boyfriend. Now what? :confused: :confused:

Should I brake up with my new one?
Go back with my old one?
Stop having sex with them both?

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Originally Posted by corbynj2

well im with this guy, we have been seeing eachother for about 4 months now, we had sex the first night we met and it went on from there.
His best freind is my ex who was using me for sex for 10 months, im still in love with this guy and would do anything to have him back even if he did use me.
Im not in love with my new boyfriend but hes in love with me. Iv'e cheated on this boyfriend several times with my old boyfriend. now what??:confused: :confused:

should i brake up with my new one?
go back with my old one?
stop having sex with them both?

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Sometimes you hv to live for others happiness. Since your old boyfriend is not in love with you so there is no point craving for him. Instead you should start thinking of this new guy since he is in love with u... love will follow...

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Originally Posted by corbynj2

well im with this guy, we have been seeing eachother for about 4 months now, we had sex the first night we met and it went on from there.
His best freind is my ex who was using me for sex for 10 months, im still in love with this guy and would do anything to have him back even if he did use me.
Im not in love with my new boyfriend but hes in love with me. Iv'e cheated on this boyfriend several times with my old boyfriend. now what??:confused: :confused:

should i brake up with my new one?
go back with my old one?
stop having sex with them both?

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OK, first of all, get married then have sex. But I personally think you need to cut ties with both of these guys and fix your screwed up life.

Nothing is screwed up yet. Your ex used you for sex right? Why would you want that?! A user cares nothing about you he just wants your body, I was used once by a guy I had been dating on and off for 3 years and loved very much I was ready to marry him then I found out all he wanted was sex (plus I was tired of his drinking issue). Don't stay with a user they WILL screw up your life!

This new guy loves you give him a try! If you stay with him and realize you don't love him then break it off with him gently and tell him you just aren't feeling the relationship. Another pointer I can give is... don't have sex on the first night >.< that's never a good idea. I'll admit now I'm 17 and have had sex with my boyfriend, but we waited before we had sex! To find out if we actually cared about each other (plus I needed to prove to myself he wasn't like my ex). Sex should be something intamate, something that brings you together, not just something for sexual pleasure. I wish you the best of luck and hope you find the right guy for you.

I guess if you like just having meaningless sex then stay with him, at some point you'll get bored of that and leave, then be stuck thinking why you didn't leave earlier,
Don't waste your time, lifes short

I think you should break ties with both guys. The ex-boyfriend is a user and you will never truly be happy with someone like that. If you don't love the new guy, don't lead him on. You are cheating on the poor guy with his best friend of all people. You need to get out of this entire situation. There are a lot more fish in the sea and there is one out there that will feel the same way about you as you do about them. Relationships are 50-50 and if one person doesn't hold up their part, there is no relationship.

Leave them both and find somebody that loves you as much as you love them.
Otherwise you WILL get bored with the relationship and by that time you could feel trapped in something you don't know how to get out of.

I agreed with areaboy, if your new boyfriend deserves your love, then give him and you a chance, start thinking of him! Love will follow...