As you all might know I have been in a good relationship for the past two years it got broken up for no reason she felt she just needed to have fun and experience things being single.first month after the breakup we still talked but now I have decided not to contact her at all just to painful and hard and she doesn't at all either .now I really do miss her and she's always on my mind always remember those good times actually they were always good honestly not once an argument.why she would do this I don't know but would like to know that part .im just hoping that no contact would draw her back .
The thing is how long should I go without no contact every day makes me want to call but I don't know if I should... any suggestions would be great! Thanks

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Originally Posted by log

as u all might know i have been in a good relationship for the past two years it got broken up for no reason she felt she just needed to have fun and experience things being single.first month after the breakup we still talked but now i have decided not to contact her at all just to painful and hard and she doesnt at all either .now i really do miss her and shes always on my mind always remember those good times actually they were always good honestly not once an arguement.why she wud do this i dunno but wud like to know that part .im just hoping that no contact wud draw her back .
the thing is how long shud i go without no contact every day makes me wanna call but i dont know if i shud...........any suggestions wud be great!. thanx

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Acturly not talking to this girl at all can make things worse to be honest
Talking to her does hurt right?
But its up to you what you want more.
If you decide you want to talk to her
Try telling her your still kinnda hurt about it with out sounding like a baby
This sitation is hard try to remind her what she really liked about you with out it being to in your face

I totally understand what your saying like I've been in relationships before but not like this it feels as if something or someone has told her you have to move on or else sword of thing I don't know or what made her decide such an awkward decision... it feels like its all fading away and its really sad.sometimes I think does she have another guy in mind and just doesn't want to tell me or what I need answers... anyone

Yes for sure and mabey she does as much as it hurts to know
And when your ready try dating agean
But in the mean time do somthen for yourself to make you feel better cause being sad isn't atractive try just being friends chill at a movie or somthen
But do somthen for you to feel good treat yourself to somthen