I'm leaving to another office and I really like him. How do I tell him that I like him before I leave? We used to be close but now it's hard for us to even have a decent conversation... help! I want a nice goodbye... will be crushed if he doesn't even care

Have you tried e-mailing him or something like that?

Nope.. he's not really into that... this dude's got a very short attention span... and tends to interpret written words wrongly.. best way to get the message across is to talk to him... it's how to go about in getting that moment that's making me a wee bit worried

I think most men have a short attention span... LOL... you said you guys used to be close and now your not? What happened there? Or did you just grow apart. If that's the case, I would start and ask him what happened to us I thoght we were friends?

Lol.. true, with a tendency to not be able to read between the lines!

Ah.. yea, we were.. well, he initiated the friendship at first.. then we hung out a lot after work.. there were rumors that he was interested but he never really voiced out anything to me about it...

Then suddenly, I don't know why, one day he was fine and the next, he was avoiding me.. we kind of addressed the issue but not fully... just decided we should forget about it and be cool with each other again.. things haven't been the same since... he's doing the push and pull routine.. when I ignore him, he comes looking for me.. when I come to him, he runs away..

So now, there's a 50/50 chance that he'll care if I'm leaving.. but 50/50 is a huge split... and I really want to just let him know.. but I don't want it to be so darn serious and make him think that I'm expecting anything

Does he know that your leaving? You can always try and ignore him again, and see what happenes. If he doesn't know that you are leaving then you can always approach him with " My last day with this place is _____ Did you hear?" And see what he says...

He sort of knows but he doesn't know when exactly I'll be leaving.. hmm.that's a good idea.. I can try to pull him aside to let him know the date...

And play it by ear from there... awesome! I think I'm going to follow up with that!

You will have to let me know how that turns out for you! Good luck!

Alritey! For sure! Thanks again!

Not a problem! Anytime...

Maybe as you are leaving the office at the last minute take a second out on your way out the door to stop and give him a really quick hug and whisper you ARE my favorite person here and then leave and let it up to him to contact you.

Yes, take some initiave and just give him a strong hint!

Ooh!that's a good idea too! Leaves lots to the imagination! And I don't need to create an excuse just to talk to him, right? Short, quick, obvious and simple!thanks for the suggestion! ;)