I figured it out thanks

Many people will consent to maintain a long-distance relationship but then not want to go through with it. This girl probably needs and wants readily-available companionship and you're not in a position to give that to her right now. I'd stop texting, e-mailing, phoning for a while ; in short, don't contact her at all. She may eventually come around to miss you and then she'll call you. On the other hand, she may not and then you'll know that it wasn't meant to be. Meanwhile, get out and enjoy yourself with other people and don't tie yourself down to this one person who's 3000 miles away from you and obviously can't be there for you.