I have been with my man for 2 years. He has 3 children with 3 different woman. 2 of his baby's mama's are awesome. They have come to the realization that they don't want each other and get along. There is this one mother that still wants him. She will use her daughter against him. We live together and she knows about me but is trying everything in her power to stop it. She will call him all the time, want to spend time with him and say things to the child and she comes back and repeats it to me. The child loves me and loves being around both her dad and I, but the real problem is I feel at any given moment he can go back to her. She has nothing going for her and is manic depressive. I trust him 100% but this is very overwhelming for me. He tells me all the time that I am the one that he wants. I do believe that. I get jealous that he is over to pick up his daughter and I know he doesn't leave right away. He also said that I need to worry about out home and take care of our home. What do I do? I love this man with all my heart, but this woman is ruining my life and my relationship.

Well have you asked him if he still have feelings for his baby momma? If your worried maybe you should further investigate because if he's spending more time over her house and not coming straight home it could be something else other than spending time with the child you know? Because if she's saying she still loves him.. it must be something to get her to that point of saying she has feelings for him. Maybe their sleeping together.. maybe not.. but something like that is very needed to further investigate. And a guy with baby mommas? 3? Girl you need to wake up and smell the coffee before its baby momma 4... believe me I know... and he will keep you in suspense all the time.. and being involved in that 3-4 ring circus is not a good story so you decide what's best for you. If you don't feel you could trust him or have a hunch that he could be cheating find out and ask.