Well I typed this question in before but I don't know if it posted... okay on Saturday (today its Monday, 8:47 PM in North Carolina) okay... long story short... I went down on my boyfriend and I think I might have tasted some pre- or something... and like 5 min. later he placed his the very tip of his penis in my vagina (im a virgin still, he only stuck it in like a half an inch) and then like 3 seconds later moved it. It laid on my vulva for like 4 seconds until he moved it... he has ejaculated before, but like 3 years ago... Ive read a lot of articles about pre- saying different stuff (from it doesn't have sperm... it has sperm only if the boy came that day or days earlier and whatever)... my period is already late, but I've been cramping lightly from time to time over the last couple of days... but not really that significant. So I'm confused and kind of nervous right now... I don't know if I could be pregnant or not... can I be pregnant and have little cramping at he same time or is it too soon to tell? He didn't break my hymen or anything... it was just down there... I was wet... but mostly I'm just confused... can I get pregnant from that? Or am I just being paranoid? It was my first time with a penis down there so... idunno... can anyone tell me what might be going on?

The only thing I could tell you, is that sometimes, when I am late a get cramps, but, how late are you?

Thanks for the reply! Like 20 something days... my period has done that before so Im not trippin too much about that... but Ive been cramping more so maybe I was just being paranoid... any more suggestions?

Start trippin.

Guess what a tip in the vagina is sexual intercourse. You may have not broken you hymen, but on the moral end you lost your virginity. Many people will disagree, but oyu can't partially loose your virginity, you either did or did not.

First off... you're not a virgin anymore. His penis (regardless how much of it) entered your vagina. That's sex. It doesn't matter weather he broke your hymen or not (if you were asking that in reference to losing your virginity)... hymens are very stretching. Some women have broken their hymen in childhood accidents, some hymens have holes in them so when a women has sex, it doesn't break etc.

Pre-ejaculate can contain sperm... it only take one to get pregnant. If you are late on your period it is time to take a HPT. If it is negative, call your doctor and request a blood pregnancy test, if it is negative you could just wait until when you are next due for your period and see if it comes.

Stress can delay or cause you to miss your period altogether as well.

I would take a HPT and go from there.