Originally Posted by fredg
Hi,
If you are afraid of your boyfriend, then don't tell him. You aren't engaged, aren't married, so "cheating" might not be the best word to use. Sounds like you just want to "run around" some, and your boyfriend of 4 mo. isn't going to like it.
Have you considered not even having a real boyfriend? Then, you can be with whoever you want.
Again, I wouldn't tell him, because it's just going to upset him. He might possibly find out about it anyway, if your ex is a blabber mouth.
I do wish you good luck.