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  • Oct 14, 2007, 12:43 AM
    crystal123098
    Get over boyfriend
    As you can see from past questions, my boyfriend and I are having problems, first with sex... but now he is a complete jerk and I have no idea why. I figure its not worth trying to stay with him just because of the baby we are having if it means I am miserable, I love him more than anything but it seems like it is just not going to work out... he's drinking more and more again and I thought he was past that. Also he is making rude snarky comments to me all the time... even when I tell him its not funny anymore. Anytime he see's a girl on TV that is remotely hot he tells me how he would the out of her (vulgar, plus he won't even have sex with me so that hurts even more)... I feel very emotional with the whole pregnancy and he makes me feel depressed and worthless. How do I move on from him? How do I break up with him? I want to but its so hard for me... I'm sick and tired of trying to talk to him... I just want to be happy... please help
  • Oct 14, 2007, 05:05 PM
    Xrayman
    I feel for you, however he is an addict-when he gets help for that-even when he says he has a problem-perhaps there is light at the end of the tunnel.

    Is he getting help?

    If not, I can't see exactly why you stay with him.
  • Oct 15, 2007, 08:10 AM
    crystal123098
    No he doesn't think there is a problem, I'm pretty much with him because I don't want our baby to be raised in a broken family, but I know that's foolish
  • Oct 15, 2007, 04:16 PM
    Xrayman
    Well kudos to you! I would really suggest you tell him that you love him BUT you want him to get help for his drinking because he needs to think about the child you two are going to raise-does he think a drunk for a father is a good example to set his child?

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