Hey everyone!
Well... my ex-boyfriend broke up with me about seven months ago... and recently I called him because it was his birthday. The conversation was really good.. and it was a long conversation[20 minutes] than the last time. Here's the problem... ever since the break up he had never asked me about "guys" or my "relationships"... he kept it simple and short... like "hows school?"... and "how are you?" questions. In this convesation he asked me if I was still in a relationship with someone... because he went to myspace and he saw the change. I said "no, we broke up bcuz we both couldnt have a long distance relationship... and so on." THEN, he asked me about my friend who he saw me at school with... and he figured we liked each other. I told him the truth, which was that I had no feelings towards this guy and we never went out. I said "Well, now lets talk about you... youve been doing all the questions"... he replied by saying, " well thats because im interested." I got really happy because this means he cares about what has happened in my life. Also, my friend tells me he is always asking about me... and if I've been doing OK. This makes me a little confused.
Question is: "Does he still have ANY feelings for me?" : /
Thanks for your help.
--liz

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I got really happy because this means he cares about what has happened in my life. Also, my friend tells me he is always asking about me... and if I've been doing OK. This makes me a little confused.

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BEST ADVICE
Keep exes out of your business!! He may care , but only for his own puposes. Don't get sloppy happy with the attention he gives. Ain't his business is it?

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Originally Posted by LiLLizz1504

.. he replied by saying, " well thats because im interested." I got really happy because this means he cares about what has happened in my life. Also, my friend tells me he is always asking about me... and if ive been doing ok. This makes me a little confused.
Question is: "Does he still have ANY feelings for me?" : /
thanks for your help.
--liz

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Sounds to me like the breaker feels he still needs to be in control.. Maintain the No Contact. As has been said.. the only feelings he has are for himself and his ego.

Do yourself a favor and forget him and work on your self-respect and ego. You deserve better.

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Drop this guy like the proverbial hot potato. If he really liked you THAT much, he would be at your door. Like the others have said, he likes the control aspect, the keeping you in his eye and in his loop. But seriously, if he honestly wanted to be with you, he would be. No more confiding in him about what you are doing - you are only giving him fuel for some future fire. What you do, who you see, who you like, is none of his business.

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Originally Posted by shygrneyzs

Drop this guy like the proverbial hot potato. If he really liked you THAT much, he would be at your door. Like the others have said, he likes the control aspect, the keeping you in his eye and in his loop. But seriously, if he honestly wanted to be with you, he would be. No more confiding in him about what you are doing - you are only giving him fuel for some future fire. What you do, who you see, who you like, is none of his business.

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Shy.. you did it again. Thumbs UP!

NC! Don't bother. It's a control thing.

Yeah, you guys are right about keeping him out of my business!!
Thanks once again. ;)

Most welcome. Good luck.