:confused: I've been friends for 3 years and I asked her out now she won't reply to my messages does she love me or what?? :( :( :( :mad

You might of scared her off because she might not be interested in you like that and doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
You might want to send her a message that if she doesn't want to go out you are still cool with having her as a friend cause you really enjoy having her as a friend and you don't want her to feel pushed into anything she doesn't want.

She's probably shocked! You should go talk to her because she might just have wanted to be friends!

If she doesn't feel the same about you, she is probably avoiding you because she is afraid of hurting your feelings or messing up the friendship. I have been in this position before, one of my guy friends asked me out. I loved him so much-like a brother- and I was so afraid that if we dated then our friendship would go down the drain. I didn't talk to him for like a week then finally I just told him. Maybe she feels this way. Just try and be casual about it and let her know that no matter how she feels, you will still love her as a friend.

Talk to her and tell her you just want to be friends! And do not take it any farther! Hope that helps.