Originally Posted by lost dad
I really dont know where to start..... first of its dealing with my two kids from a ex girlfriend, my oldest she is 12 and the youngest is 6, ive been there for them all the way till i met my now wife(2 years ago), me and my ex broke up like 4 years ago, but the kids would still come over almost everyday cause they live like 6 houses away, everything was still good with me and my kids, there mom moved on and had a few boy friends, then i got married and things went down hill. she nailed me with childsupport which i pay $1000 a month, and she hardly lets me see them, always makes a excuse on why they can't come over or doesnt answer the phone, i would always call them to see if they can come over, and theres ALWAYS an excuse why they can't and its stupid reasons, why do i have to pay? i know u are saying cause ur the dad, but i have ALWAYS paid for stuff that they need always, i have never ever said no to things that they need i pay for there medical, there school clothes and supplies, everything. I have always paid for there needs, even after me and there mom split up( she fooled around on me) u know theres alot of dads that want no part ofthre kids at all, and theres me that has always been here and wanting to be here but there mother doesnt wan tthat. its so frustrating. Me and my daugher(the olddest) used to be best friends, daddys girls,goes with me everywhere, that all ended in one day, next day all the way until now hell...................................., now my daughter doesnt even call me, i ask her and all she tells me is " i dunno" everything is i dunno, i think there mom brain washed them. Now i have a new baby and this childsupport is really hurting my new family> its not that i forgeting about my old family(kids), its that there mother is not letting me be there for them and its still my fault she says, everything is my fault, i dunno why im typing this here, i know im still going to pay out of my , cause its the law, i guess im just venting, if anyone wants to tell me thats its my fault then do so, if you want to tell me jus shut up and pay, then ok.... but you are not in my shoes and every situation is unique and totally diffrent, im in living hell, i lost mybest friend(daughter) and some how its my fault and now im paying for it, im so lost, thanks for letting me vent somewhere , aloha