OK I have to admit it I'm not popular at school but all of a sudden on night a really popular girl imed me and she was like hey do you want to hang out on Monday and stuff and asking if I wanted to sit with her and I was like in shock and all because I'm not popular but I'm not a nerd or geek just I have my own crowd and I was telling my friend about it and she called me her a ***** and I was asking why and she said if I hang out with her she will hate me.And she's like one of my best friends. Im so lost I don't know what to do to be made fun of even more if I don't hang out with them or hang out with them and loose all of my friends. I would just really apretiacte some advice..
Sincerlly
-Brittney

Hi, Brittney,
Friends? A friend is someone who respects you, and you them. Someone who will not intentionally hurt you, or you them.
You will have to make up your own mind here, about what to do. If someone is offering to be your friend, only you can decide whether to do it.
Are you sure you aren't under-rating yourself? Sounds to me like you are a very, very popular person! Be yourself, and at some point, you will come to realize that what others think is not that important... it's what you think that matters.
If others have a problem, then it's their problem, not yours.
Be yourself, and you will be OK. Life is learning, about what to do, and most things are learned from mistakes.
I do wish you the best, and please don't worry so much about what to do, just follow you best instincts. Friends come and go. If someone is offering you friendship, take it. It might work out, might not.

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Originally Posted by blondiee4l

ok i have to admit it im not popular at school but all of a sudden on night a really popular girl imed me and she was like hey do you want to hang out on monday and stuff and asking if i wanted to sit with her and i was like in shock and all because im not popular but im not a nerd or geek just i have my own crowd and i was telling my friend about it and she called me her a ***** and i was asking why and she said if i hang out with her she will hate me.And shes like one of my best friends. Im soo lost i dont know what to do to be made fun of even more if i dont hang out with them or hang out with them and loose all of my friends. i would just really apretiacte some advice..
sincerlly
-Brittney

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I think the gal that is mad is just jealous and would not worry about her at all. Friends come and go and it's your choice whom you want to be friends with. Consider the source - and if she likes using abusive language, she's not worth being a friend either. Let her grow up and you make as many new friends as you want - she does not own you and if she hates you, will that really matter, were you that close in the first place, or just let her 'join' your group? If the other young lady has qualities you'd like to get to know more about, go for it and let the foul-mouthed one do her thing.
Good Luck in making new friends and keep us posted.

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Stick to your true friends girl! Believe me, been there, done that. That so called "popular" girl isn't giving you attention for absolutley no reason. Think about it... she wants something that only you can help her with. :cool:

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Originally Posted by Wowzers

Stick to your true friends girl!! Believe me, been there, done that. That so called "popular" girl isn't giving you attention for absolutley no reason. Think about it...she wants something that only you can help her with. :cool:

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At that age, are there really any 'true friends'? Let's face it, nothing is for free and we all want something from others, be it popularity, help in a project, even on a bet (which is cruel), but kids will be that way. You never know until you try it, and can always back out. If your 'old' friends cannot accept that it's possible to make new friends and still keep the old ones, then they are pretty narrow minded. Abusive language and threats never helped anyone 'stay' friends.