What is the best way to get my girlfriend back? Does "no contact" really work. Can someone help? Thanks

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What is the best way to get my girlfriend back?

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Her coming back on her own free will, without pressure from you.

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Does "no contact" really work.

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Yes it lets you move on, and enjoy your life.

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Can someone help?

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What kind of help do you need???

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Thanks

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Your welcome. How about some info, and a little background??:confused:

Hahah Tali your hilarious haha.. But yes age info length of being together all helps. And what he says is true. The best way and the only real way the works with good results is to move on and let her come back on her own fre will. No begging crying, emtpy promises.. Her choice not yours. You have no control.

Yeah man. I'm currently going through something similar but you may begin to realize after re thinking everything that maybe it's the comfort of having someone rather than knowing if she is the right one for you. I myself right now am going through that. If you beg or show them how much you still miss them it will only pressure them more and push you further out. But if you show her no contact she will think that your moving on and MAYBE will come back but the reality is, you can't say your moving on but in your head have hopes cause I did that and they got shattered all over again. After a month of grieving I feel I'm at square one so don't put yourself in my place. Just let go.. remember:

"IF YOU LOVE SOMETHING, SET IT FREE. IF IT COMES BACK TO YOU, IT WAS MEANT TO BE. IF IT DOESNT, THAN IT WAS NEVER YOURS TO BEGIN WITH"...

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"FEAR ENDS, WHERE FAITH BEGINS"

These have been helping me... good luck

All of the above posts are true, and as cliché as the statements may sound, they are real. I'm going through the same situation, it's been 3 weeks and it's been horrible, but you need to have No Contact, and get yourself off the floor. If a woman or man wants to be with someone, they will make it happen. You might be entering the 'bargaining' stage, where you want to talk things out and make promises to her, which might make you feel like you have a chance, but it will only distant yourself from her. Without much background of your situation, she might already have all the info she needs to figure out if she wants to be with you.

Hang in there, be strong, and know that there will be moments of weakness and sadness, but those will not last forever. You will have ups and downs. Do you want to be with someone whose feelings and faith can't match yours? You deserve better.

Well said needofhelp.. Let me give you an example man.. she will give you hope and shut it down like a flash of a light and she isn't doing this to hurt you, she is probably doing it cause she is hurt and don't know what to do but does that make it OK? NO!! When my girl and I broke up a month ago on my account I begged and pleaded for that next week. Mid week she gave me hope, then she told me I didn't have a chance afew days later. A week later I proposed. She said yes but asked her mom and her mom flipped out. We decided to start over slow but every few days she would tell me she doesn't know until finally the outside influences won her over. Now I feel at square one. My advice is just leave her be. If she contacts you don't reply unless she seems for real but like Needofhelp said. Emotions are all over the place right now and need time to cool off. If she hooks up with someone in a rebound factor than she isn't worth it. Good luck

If she wanted you at all she wouldn't have left in the first place. Wake up and smell the coffee guys. Or do you like being a laughing stock within her circle of friends... because in case you don't know it you are.

Forget her and move on.

What's the reason for the break up? I think it all depends on that