I met this girl over a month ago and we started dating.
We fell in love with each other in quite a short span of time.
Later on she told me she had an ex who was her first love which lasted for over 4 years, but she said its her past and it doesn't matter to her.
Recently it came up that she just can't get over her ex. This really hurts me. I just want2 know watz going on with her and what am I supposed 2 do.

How old are you and how old is she? And a story or info ?

I am 20. And she is also 20. What sort of info do u want??

Do you know why she and her ex brokeup?
Do you know how long ago they brokeup?
Do you know who did the breaking up? Her or him?
Answer those questions and maybe we can get a clearer picture of why she hasn't gotten over him.

She broke up with her ex because he was sleeping wit som1 else and he insulted her in quite a lot of ways
They broke up 7 or 8 months back

To expect to be in love after a month of dating, is pushing the envelope. To expect her to be over a 4 year relationship in 7/8 months is unrealistic on both your parts. Your both are investing too much to soon, and will crash and burn, unless you slow this train way down. I mean way down. Be friends first, and no sex for a year.

My friend leave her and leave her now! You have to let her go. Number one she can't love him and you at the same time. It seems like you're a rebound and she is incredibly selfish.

"You can't move forward until you are over the past"

I always remind myself of this, the rebound really sucks because ultimately you are used while she gets over the past. Then she meets the next and he is the one while you deal with the heartache.

Move yourself back in line if you really want her, let her find someone else or find herself and hope that I am right by staying in touch but not so much that you cross into the friendzone.