:confused: I dumped my boyfriend a year ago and since then we've still been talking and are still friends. Ive realized that I've made a mistake and want to go back to the way things used to be. He's on the football team now and has a lot of girls that like him. I ended up telling him that I still like him and he told me he wants to just be friends and that we've already tried and it didn't work out and that he doesn't think anything is there anymore. I care about this guy a lot... is there anything I can still do to try to get him to have the same feelings again?

If a guy tells you he is not interested this is your cue to move on! It might suck, but it's a fact of life that sometimes people will fall out of love with you. And if you are the one who dumped them and left them for an entire year to move on, they will often not want to walk backwards and re-ignite those old feelings for you out of fear that they will be jerked around again! Real love is unselfish, so ask yourself this! Is this guy better off without you and with someone who would never have dumped him in the first place, because they truly appreciate him for who he is inside, whether he is popular and exciting on the surface or not.