I'm 17 and I'm nearly 15 stone! There's loadz of guys I like but no one ever asks me out! Is my weight problem the reason why no one wants to go out with me?

Everyone has their own tastes, ( first sorry don't know your weight system) but some men like only very heavy girls, that is what turns them on, some like this or that. If you are in high school, looks mean more now than they will as you grow older, latter who you are on the inside will be the big issue

15 stone is 210 lbs or 95 kg

Honey, there are guys that like all shapes and sizes.
However, keep in mind that superficial people are not worth the time it takes to look at them ;)

Hello.

Some Men and Ladies only look at the outside and never get to know the person inside. That's their problem not yours, they are missing out on so much in life by their actions. A real Man will get to know you and find the special lady you are and Love you for who you are.

The big turn on for any Man is for the Lady to Like herself. If you walk tall and flash that sweet sexy smile of yours you will find Mr. Right.

Dennis777

That is not even over weight it is a medium and its healthy for your age.

I'm a big girl and I'm 16... I never thought I would find someone that is interested in me but hey I think I've just found him I recently met this really cute guy that's really into me so I'm just taking it slow and see how it goes

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Originally Posted by XxBbAbE2210xX

i'm 17 and i'm nearly 15 stone! there's loadz of guys i like but no one ever asks me out! is my weight problem the reason why no one wants to go out with me?

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I am sorry to tell you this, and don't know of any good way to say it so here it is, yes, the weight issue here is an issue. Now I will tell you why. At the age you are now, and in the peer society of high school you are currently in, the boys eyesight is very blurred and only focuses on the nicely figured attractive girls, the reason for this is HORMONES! If you were a guy, you would be full of hormones right now, and for the most part, you rather be with one of the little "hotties" than sleep, eat, drink, or play. All your energy and thoughts is how to be with the hotties. However, there will be that one special guy for you and you will come together in due time. Perhaps he is so skinny and scrawny that you are over looking him at this time. Remember to just be yourself, and the inner beauty will shine in due time. Who knows, you may already have someone that is interested in you and has self esteem issues, such as yourself. Get your self: respect, esteem, pride, whatever you wish to call it UP and go forward. And without too much time being taken up with the issues of dating, you have more time to do your studying and get yourself into college and get your degree and a great career, then worry about the guys.

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Originally Posted by XxBbAbE2210xX

i'm 17 and i'm nearly 15 stone! there's loadz of guys i like but no one ever asks me out! is my weight problem the reason why no one wants to go out with me?

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Well sometimes at the age of 17 if you are trying to date guys around your age... they are too immature and are more worried about looks than they should be. But my advise is who want a boyfriend at 17 anyway, I know you may feel like you NEED one but in all reality you just WANT one :) but you are going to be going on to better things like... maybe college where you will meet TONS and TONS of guy... so at your age maybe it is a factor but I would say def don't let it bother you :) I'm sure that you are super gorgeous!

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Originally Posted by MOWERMAN2468

i am sorry to tell you this, and don't know of any good way to say it so here it is, yes, the weight issue here is an issue. now i will tell you why. at the age you are now, and in the peer society of high school you are currently in, the boys eyesight is very blurred and only focuses on the nicely figured attractive girls, the reason for this is HORMONES! if you were a guy, you would be full of hormones right now, and for the most part, you rather be with one of the little "hotties" than sleep, eat, drink, or play. all your energy and thoughts is how to be with the hotties. However, there will be that one special guy for you and you will come together in due time. perhaps he is so skinny and scrawny that you are over looking him at this time. remember to just be yourself, and the inner beauty will shine in due time. who knows, you may already have someone that is interested in you and has self esteem issues, such as yourself. get your self: respect, esteem, pride, whatever you wish to call it UP and go forward. and without too much time being taken up with the issues of dating, you have more time to do your studying and get yourself into college and get your degree and a great career, then worry about the guys.

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If you think all guys with raging hormones are so hot themselves that they think they only deserve the hottest hottie, then your are poorly mistaken.
There is someone for everyone and weight has nothing to do with not getting a date.

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Originally Posted by AKaeTrue

If you think all guys with raging hormones are so hot themselves that they think they only deserve the hottest hottie, then your are poorly mistaken.
There is someone for everyone and weight has nothing to do with not getting a date.

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That is not what I was saying at all. I am saying that guys at that particular age is full of hormones and care more for looks than that of the inner beauty. Man I hate when people misconstrue what has been stated.

WELL IF IT IS WEIGHT, I SEE IN YOUR LAST post you were 16 stones, so if that is it you are heading in the correct direction. But it is not the issue here. You will find the right guy someday, and he will like you for who you are, not your weight.
I may be smelling a troll here.