He's having an affair over a year. I have 3 kids. He claims he's trying to come back but I push him away meaning nagging him. What are the chances he will walk away fromme?

He is already half way there. Can you provide more info please?

What do youmean half way where leaving? He claims he can't abandon me and the kids

According to you, he has someone on the side, so he is a part time husband at best. How long have you been married, and why do you put up with adultry? How old are you, and him?

You keep pushing him away and he will not just be half way out the door soon enough. Not many men will stand for that treatment. If he claims he cannot leave the you and the children does that mean the affair is over and he is willing to have this marriage mediated and remedied? As in counseling, actual effort, no more affairs, and honest forgiveness?

Why do you think he saus he cannot leave you and the children? Do you doubt that he is sincere? Or is he wanting to stay because the light finally dawned in his head about facing child support and alimony?

He has already abandone you and your children, he is having an affair.. Why are you letting him go back and forth between you and the other woman?

He will walk away if you do not mean anymore to him, use this as a chance to be free of you, and tell people who ask that at least he tried. If he is contrite he will do his best to win your love back.

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Originally Posted by Ledinai

he will walk away if you do not mean anymore to him, use this as a chance to be free of you, and tell people who ask that at least he tried. If he is contrite he will do his best to win your love back.

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