Pot and ciggaretts - boyfriends has expensive habits
My boyfriend - who I've lived with for 4 years now - is clearly addictted to weed and ciggaretts - he's only 24 and has been doing both non stop since he was about 11 or 12...
He thinks there is nothing wrong with someking pot and loves it, the only down side of it is that its affecting our finances... and he says he's going to quit for that reason until he finds himself at night with out anything to smoke - and goes and gets some anyway... a night doesn't go by without it and if we don't buy some, he ends up going to hang out with his friends (cuz they're always someking too)
I don't mind the smoke - I really don't. He's not the budget conscious type - and I am... if he has 20 bucks in his pocket - he'll spend it on weed with out thinking about dinner then I have to jump in and save the day... and that's what bothers me. If we had a nice bank account, I wouldn't be writing this. All and all, its just frustrating me - its pretty much hopeless to try to make it change - is this wirth a break up (btw way have a child together - so break up isn't always the best answer)
Also - a side question - I don't smoke ciggaretts, but he is in such a nasty mood sometimes... and I know I didn't do anything to provoke it - I think its when he doesn't have a ciggarette he gets like that and I hate it also - its not my fault he's addictted... how do I make him realize hopw much it affects me to take the blows for his issues