I know not what to write here
I guess for this to work well you will need a short history, child of a divorce angry-protective to not so angry-need to help to not angry-with a need to comfort OK that is out of the way. Now on to the question I listen and I am good at it, how do you stop without offending the people who already talk to you for I am rapidly discovering that I am not equipped to deal with the truths well not the truth so much as the misdirection that comes with knowing. I know this sound bad but you can not always be everything to everyone.