For the last 2 months I was with this guy it was brilliant we got on so well we had such a good time. We had a cuople of arguments but nothing major and mostly occurred when I was drunk and it was over me disrespecting him. Last weekend I hadn't really spoke to him much as his phone was cut off and I had no credit, I went down to brighton to see my friend who goes to uni down there we had a few drink went out and had a few mor wn we got bk I asked if I coud use her fone to call him she said yes and then I do not remember anyfing that happened after that. When I got up in the mornin I looked at her call list and saw I called him millions of times I left a message on his Facebook and as a reply I got off wit your message I told you I can't stand disrepect and that's wast your all about I've deleted you off my friends list don't tlk to me anymore. I replied saying how sorry I was and how I couldn't remember anything he replied who's this. I'm really upset all my friends love him we have such good times when we go out my friend called him yesterday and said how upset I was and that I don't no what I done he said he needed to meet her and alk to her but she was busy now I fink there's no chance of even talking to him I don't liv that far from him and I'm panicking in case I bump into him and he totally ignores me WILL HE EVER TALK AGAIN WILL WE EVER GET BACK TOGETHER??

I've been in a relationship where my GF didn't respect me, its not nice.
He's proberbly angry at the moment, maybe you should give him some time.

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Originally Posted by raggamuffin

for the last 2 months i was with this guy it was brilliant we got on so well we had such a good time. we had a cuople of arguments but nothing major and mostly occured wen i was drunk and it was over me disrespecting him. last weekend i hadnt rly spoke to him much as his phone was cut off and i had no credit, i went down to brighton to see my frend who goes to uni down there we had a few drink went out n had a few mor wn we got bk i asked if i coud use her fone to call him she sed yes and then i do not remember anyfing that happend after that. wen i got up in the mornin i looked at her call list and saw i called him millions of times i left a msg on his facebook and as a reply i got off wit ur msg i told u i can't stand disrepect and thats wast ur all about ive deleted u off my frends list dont tlk to me anymore. i replied saying how sorry i was and how i couldnt remember anything he replied who's this. im really upset all my frends love him we hav such good times wen we go out my frend called him yesterday and said how upset i was and that i dnt no wat i done he said he needed to meet her and alk to her but she was busy now i fink theres no chance of even talkin to him i dnt liv that far from him and im panicking incase i bump into him and he totally ignores me WILL HE EVER TALK AGAIN WILL WE EVER GET BACK TOGETHER???

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Why should you care? How do you disrespect him? You have known him for two months get over it, and leave him alone. You might want to stop drinking so much if you can't remember what you do, and use spell check. It's awfully hard to understand what you're saying.

Have you ever had someone be rude to you over and over again, thinking sorry fixes everything? You sound like a person that grew up with some very unhealthy examples and should consider therapy and abstaining from drinking.You can actually ruin the potential for great relationships with the tantrums and habits you currently posses. I don't care how attractive you are or what you have, it will be extremely hard to maintain or even gain a healthy, fulfilling relationship and he may never talk to you again on that level but if you guys got along before, he will miss the connection and maybe deal with you at a distance. Hope this helps...

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