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Tell him that after much thought you would rather have a threesome with another guy NOT another girl and see how it goes from there. Seriously, if he can ask that of you he should see how it would feel to him with the shoe on the other foot.
What have you got to lose really!

Everyone has fantasies and a threesome is certainly a popular one. However, it takes a very special kind of relationship to survive something like that. Just because your boyfriend has these fantasies does not mean he does not care for you.

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Originally Posted by simryn

does he really care about me ...does he know what kind of person i am or is he just one of those guys who gets off on lesbian fantacies??

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Is it not possible that he cares for you AND gets off on lesbian fantasies? Those two things are not mutually exclusive.

It seems funny to me that you don't think sex is a game, yet you play a head-game with your boyfriend about sex. Rather than putting him through ridiculous tests, why not tell him the truth about how you feel? Communication is key in any relationship.

I did ask that when he suggested the threesome.. he didn't like it at allllllllllll...

If you need to know if he really cares for you, ask. By "really know you" you mean to say he should know when you are outright lying to him?

As to why he would think you changed your mind over night: YOU TOLD HIM YOU DID. Unless he knows you to be a liar, why would he not believe you?