Hey Everybody, J Aguila here. Just wanted to get some opinions on a particular subject. If a woman asks to be with you several times over the course of a year or so, you reject the offers appropriately, but you finally decide to give her a chance. Why would she end the relationship shortly afterwards if she had wanted you for all that time. She seemed genuinely interested in being with me and then used the "I dont want to be with anybody right now" excuse. Ladies, is there any reasoning behind this or is the girl just troubled? What do you guys think? Keep in mind she's 19. Any suggestions/opinions would be welcome to me figuring this out. I'm perplexed.

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Originally Posted by J Aguila

Hey Everybody, J Aguila here. Just wanted to get some opinions on a particular subject. If a woman asks to be with you several times over the course of a year or so, you reject the offers appropriately, but you finally decide to give her a chance. Why would she end the relationship shortly afterwards if she had wanted you for all that time. She seemed genuinely interested in being with me and then used the "I dont want to be with anybody right now" excuse. Ladies, is there any reasoning behind this or is the girl just troubled? What do you guys think? Keep in mind she's 19. Any suggestions/opinions would be welcome to me figuring this out. I'm perplexed.

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Maybe you aren't who she thought you were or she's not physically attracted to you. I did that to guys at 19 and those were the reasons.

Thanks for your opinion Uhappy Newlywed. That's a good point. However we were "talking to each other" about 3months before we officially got together. She initiated the first kiss, and then every time she saw me she wanted my sugar lol. She also told me how attractive I was and how cute her friends thought I was as well. Any other theories on why she had a change so drastically. I do have to mention also that she confided to me that she had been physically and sexually abused as a child and her only family was her brother. Who actuallly just left her by herself to go back to their home state. It's the first time they've been apart. Do you think personal issues would affect someone's relationship decisions so much?