I have been dating a guy since June 2006. We have had our ups and downs. I have broken up with him several times because he isn't always honest with me. The last time we broke up it was mutual because he said he wanted to date other people. He is almost 99% sure he wants to marry me (I am not really looking for marriage) but he wants to live his life as a single man. He has never been married and his last relationship ended badly (she was an alcoholic). He has also lost a lot of weight since that relationship (I met him after the weight loss) and I think he does not have a lot of dating experience and didn't have many girlfriends most of his life.
After this last breakup I told him not to contact me any more but he keeps sucking me back in. He bought tickets for us to a Van Halen concert before the breakup. About 4 days after the break up, he called me and told me there is no one else he would rather take to the concert than me. It was a long drive to the concert and he told me all this stuff how I had his heart and soul. We used to see each other everyday before the break up and since the concert we are not back together but the keeps calling me (not everyday) to do things with him. What makes it bad is he moved into the same apartments I live in last May to be closer to me. The days we do not see each other of course I will notice if his car is not there. Last night he was gone all night long. He called me this morning and asked me to come to dinner tonight. Should I go or tell him to f**k off for good?