Hi can someone tell me what to do with my boyfriend he calls me once every other day but when we talk for like 5 minutes he says oh I'm bz I gtg and I'm like OK will you call me back he says yes I will but than he doesn't call so I ring him and as I ask him why you didn't call back he yells at me and says I don't have time for this nonsense I am bz working and I know he is not that bz he always yells at me now adays he hungs up on me I don't know what has happened to him he never gives me a chance to talk to him about it advise me what to do thank Q

You know it is very hard to figure out what the fine line is.
To call or not... I usually don't call first, don't push the person. I don't think most men are fond of clingy women ( I am not saying you are).

But if I don't call I bit he won't call for days and than call and pretend that nothing happened I mean that would be OK if it hapeened once but it always happens so I don't really get it I need to know what is the best thing to do to him him back

He is a bit immature for you. I would move on.

May I ask how old is he please?

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Originally Posted by The Lake House

He is a bit immature for you. I would move on.

May I ask how old is he please?

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Yeah he is 29 and I am 24 I really need to know what to do please

If someone is into you, there is no need to prompt him to call. I believe you need a little more confidence in yourself and know you are worth it. If you are having feelings of unsurity and insecurity about his caring for you then it probably isn't there. Your best bet is to sit down and have a true, open, honest talk about how you feel and then give him a chance to do the same. Who knows you may be on the same page just different paragraphs. Give it a try... the worst that could happen is that you end this relationship before it gets worse... Hope this helps... really... and keep your chin up... the right one is out there... ;)