Originally Posted by Butterfly300
married 14 years separated 2 i asked him to leave the home we have two children i use to be very over bearing would not compliment on anything always had something negative to say I have changed greatly i do want my husband back but i guess since i was so negative he doesn't believe me i have asked him numerous times when was he coming back he would say he wasn't ready, yet ,now looking back i now it would be hard coming back into a home like that now he says some days he wants to married some days he dones't he says he stuck in the middle , I told him we should file for divorce he says thats wrong and he really loves me it seems like i have been by myself forever there has never been any type of physical abuse or extra martial affairs that i am aware of he says even though we are not together he has not stepped outside our marriage , because that would cause him more confusion i want him at home but tired of waiting i am trying really hard to get off his back but it hurts so bad when he comes and goes i wonder if this marriage has been destroyed beyond repair also lately i have been thinking that i dont want to be married any more or just stick it out because love is still there and he will do anything for me and i would do anything for him as well he says he trying to work it out but i hope it's not a waste of time and it turns out in divorce i know nothing is promised but its killing me (he refuses professional help) i have prayed and asked for guidance but never get a answer please help
