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Why Don't Guys Like Me, I Am Nice,Pretty,outgoing,And So Much More My Only Problem Is That Iam A Little Over Weight And No Guys Like Me And This Hard For Me To Say I HAve Never had A Bf Or never even Kissed a Boy.
And It Hurts To See All These Skinny Gorgeous Girls That Get Any Guy They want.
I Just Feel Left Out All The Time,My Cousin Gets Called Pretty,Gorgeous,Sexy Right In Front Of me And It Hurts Because Nobodys Ever Called Me That before.
What Should I Do.. :(
Well its probably because of how old you are I'm guessing 15 or lower? Basically above that guys start to realize that a toothpick isn't a good girlfriend and weight is not factor. And there are guys who like big girls that's for sure
You will find a great guy don't worry about it.. usually all the skinny pretty girls attract all the jerks really.
This is true and also I've learned that skinny girls can usually be turn out to be rude ubnoxcious and greedy and don't relize how lucky they are and as for the boyfriend thing he will come cause from the picture you lok beautiful and I think sooner or later it will take some time just be happy and try to block out the negative thoughtsQuote:
Originally Posted by brookeleigh
At young ages, it seems things are not fair, and all the boys seem to want the cheer leaders. Well life move on and soon they find that those are not the girls they will marry latter, and also the boys that feel the same way will soon start asking you out also.
You're only 14. I felt the same way then, and I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 21. I always thought it was because I was overweight and that all my friends were so lucky because guys liked them and always asked them out. But Then I grew up, realised that guys didn't like me because I didn't like me. So I started focusing on me, gaining confidence (I'm still a little overweight, but I dress super cute, always do my makeup, etc) and not basing my life on what a guy thought about me. You're still so young. Focus on having fun and not the opposite sex and someone will come along. Just be patient.
You just be proud of who you are and hang in there. First of all, you have lots of time to find someone, if you're only 14. I know that probably doesn't help a whole lot, but think of it this way. While some of your friends are dating and in a huge hurry to grow up, you are actually probably better off because you are focusing on you and on your high school life and have more time for yourself by not dating. Most people don't end up with the person they dated in high school anyway. Then by the time they graduate, they have several exes and have wasted countless hours on relationships they aren't going to be in for long.
That being said, hey, you could have someone ask you out tomorrow. Just because it hasn't happened yet, doesn't mean it won't. I didn't have a boyfriend until I was in my senior year!
Just be proud of you. Lots of guys do go for the "thin cheerleader type" in high school, but in the long run, they want to marry someone with personality and depth and that has nothing to do with weight. I'm not saying skinny girls can't have good personalities, but it's just that people's ideals change as they grow and learn more about themselves and the world.
So, don't worry. I'm sure that when you are older, you will find a great guy who will appreciate you for the beautiful woman you are, because all women are beautiful. You just focus on what makes you happy! Good luck! :)
Well its not just the body guys are after, although they are visual creatures .
I've never kissed a boy or had a boyfriend either and I'm 5'5 with a 32F and weigh 130 pounds , no guys even talk to me. THere are probobly a lot of guys who have crushes on you and are just too shy to speak. A little overweight isn't unattrative :)
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