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I have a few questions for you girl, please answer honestly.
1. What do you look for in a guy?
2. If a guy wants to talk to you for the first time, what kind of approach (his approach) makes you want to get to know him?
3. What kinds of gifts to you prefer from a boyfriend?
4. When a guy asks you out, what does it take for you to say yes?
5. How do you want a guy to flirt with you?
6. After you're going out with a guy, what activities do you want to do with him?
Thanks.
1. Honestly, I look for a good personality. A good personality is a must!
2. When a man approaches me, he has to be respectful. If he is a jerk about it, I keep moving.
3. I like any gifts as long as they come from the heart. I love flowers because when I get them I know that I was being thought of.
4. I will say yes as long as he seems like a nice guy and is respectful.
5. A guy can flirt with me any way he wants as long as he is not grotesque about it. No grabbing at me or anything like that.
6. I will do anything as long as I get to spend time with him. You can never go wrong with the movies.
I Look For A Personality ANd Sense Of Humor.Quote:
Originally Posted by xmarksthespot
When A Man Approaches me He HAs To Be Nice And Respectful.
Gifts Like Flowers Or Candy
I Will Go Out With A Guy if It Seems He Knows How To Treat A Girl
Guys Can Flirt With Me Any Way They Want Except For Being A Perv
Anything if You Get To Spend Time With Him Like Cuddleing On The Couch Watching A Movie.!
1. Personality
2. Just say,"HEY" it's that easy
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4.I have to know him and he can't be a porn
5.If we just met lip reading acrossed the room
6.Movies,Park,Making Out, Depending on who he is Sex
1. Religion. Personality. Respectful.
2. I love hearing corny pick up lines.. not the kind that disrespect a woman though.
3. something he made. Like a picture frame with our pic. 25cent rings that come from those machines but only when we are out somewhere and there's a machine and he runs over and gets one and suprises me with it.
4. I have to know the guy.
5. as long as he's respectful about it it doesn't matter
6. sitting at home watching TV marathons. Go karts. video games. Anything like that.
I have quoted your questions, and mixed my answers in. I hope you don't mind.
1. What do you look for in a guy?
I look for stability, affection, and intelligence.
2. If a guy wants to talk to you for the first time, what kind of approach (his approach) makes you want to get to know him?
Show interest in me or in a common element of life. Like the guy I like right now, we talk about the things going on at work a lot. Don't directly show interest in sex right off the bat, I will think you are a player and wonder how many people you have been with.
3. What kinds of gifts to you prefer from a boyfriend?
I am probably the wrong one to ask. I don't value high prices things. Simple practical things that show a lot of thought hit the spot with me. I would prefer a guys time and affection over material gifts.
4. When a guy asks you out, what does it take for you to say yes?
There has to be the potential for a spark, and I have to be able to trust him.
5. How do you want a guy to flirt with you?
Start slow, make me guess. The first couple should be things that can be taken either way. Then work up to the more obvious one. Don't get raunchy, let her do that.
6. After you're going out with a guy, what activities do you want to do with him?
RELAX. I don't like activities that put stress on the relationship. If you can't agree on a movie, do something you can agree on. I think there is a lot to be said for nights spend chilling on the couch just talking and cuddling. Food is cool too. Sometimes I would not mind going shopping with a guy, because I can see what he thinks about items.
Thanks.
You may laugh at my answering, but I am a woman, so hope you are't offended.Quote:
Originally Posted by xmarksthespot
I always looked for a self confident guy, hopefully when seeing him with other guys I could tell what kind of person he was. Also, good grooming counts, as to whatever trends are current, nothing bizarre.(unless it is something we share)
Walk up to her. Just a smile, a hello, hey, or whatever greeting is good. Self confidence again is key.
Something he knows I like, if he knows I like hearts, something heartshaped, purple if I have a lot of purple, in other words, she likes it if you notice her, and it should be little things.
She will be more likely to say yes, if you have a plan. Especially if it is something simple. Like a dinner, movie, maybe live music ? It does not have to be expensive, just nice.
Flirt with a sense of play, you have to find your own little 'things' you do. My boyfriend used to wink at me in public, I knew what he meant.
Every girl is different, she may be artsy and love galleries, maybe physical and likes rollerblading, or bicycling, My husband took me on a 5 mile hike to a waterfall for our second date. Take your cue from what you both like. Just enjoying each others company is good too.
1. of course the general: good personality, sweet(ish) nature, sense of humor, but with me there's also that X factor that I can't really explain...Quote:
Originally Posted by xmarksthespot
2. its better and easier to say what not to do: NO PICK UP LINEs... I would prefer a guy be original and not use pick-up lines... their annoying and a complete turn off.
3. I'm the type of girl I HATE getting gifts... but for like b-day or christmas... when he won't take no for an awnser... something funny and original... nothing extravigant just something that shows he cares and pays attetion... like a CD... on that he burnt out himself with some of my fav. Songs on it or 'our' songs... or a book I mentioned... chocolate and flowers are nice... but it doesn't take a lot of origiality
4. I have to genuinly like the guy... and I have to know that he won't play me or hurt me. Because frankly a guy who even thinks he's a thug isn't worth my time... because he won't be real with me... I want a man not a little boy
5. umm... it depends on the guy and the situation... but in general... I don't mind "dirty" comments as long as they aren't raunchy... idk it just depends
6. anything fun. And something that can hold my interest... or that I could actually spend time with the guy at doing... I even like just going to the park just to walk around or whatever... or football games... or the local pool hall...
*i hope some of what I said has helped... but I would like to point out that that's just me personally... every girl's different... my best advice would to be yourself... not who you think she wants you to be or who your friends tell you she wants you to be... just you...
1. What do you look for in a guy?
a good personality and something that makes them stick out. =] and they cannot be clingy
2. If a guy wants to talk to you for the first time, what kind of approach (his approach) makes you want to get to know him?
he has to be outgoing in my opinion and he has to be confident but not overly confident otherwize he comes of as really cocky.. not good
3. What kinds of gifts to you prefer from a boyfriend?
home made ones =] they're the best. I love when a guy takes time to make something for me. Even a cake works sometimes. =]
4. When a guy asks you out, what does it take for you to say yes?
I have to like him of course!
5. How do you want a guy to flirt with you?
again they have to be outgoing and confident without being cocky
6. After you're going out with a guy, what activities do you want to do with him?
anything fun- picnics, laser tag, bowling, eating out, driving around blasting music, horse back riding, movies, just hanging out
1. What do you look for in a guy?
Personality and not to imature
2. If a guy wants to talk to you for the first time, what kind of approach (his approach) makes you want to get to know him?
Just start a conversation and try not to leave any long pauses
3. What kinds of gifts to you prefer from a boyfriend?
Anything as long as I can see it came from the heart
4. When a guy asks you out, what does it take for you to say yes?
If you like him and would like to go out with him
5. How do you want a guy to flirt with you?
Confident but not being full of themselves
6. After you're going out with a guy, what activities do you want to do with him?
Just hanging out and having fun and occassionly going out somplace really nice.
1. What do you look for in a guy? Manners, sense of humor, positive personality
2. If a guy wants to talk to you for the first time, what kind of approach (his approach) makes you want to get to know him? Walk up, and say "hi". It doesn't sound like a lot but women can tell pretty quickly if they'll like a guy or not. HI is better than any pick-up line.
3. What kinds of gifts to you prefer from a boyfriend? photos, flowers, unique books
4. When a guy asks you out, what does it take for you to say yes? If he's polite and sincere ...with eye contact.
5. How do you want a guy to flirt with you? Don't compliment my looks right away. After talking to me, tell me I'm smart...or something similar
6. After you're going out with a guy, what activities do you want to do with him? Activities we both enjoy. Skating, hiking, movies, sports events, concerts, etc.
1. What do you look for in a guy? Personality.. mostly that counts n got to have a little looksQuote:
Originally Posted by xmarksthespot
2. If a guy wants to talk to you for the first time, what kind of approach (his approach) makes you want to get to know him? If he asks for my number n touchy feely flirting way
3. What kinds of gifts to you prefer from a boyfriend? Chocolate, flowers
4. When a guy asks you out, what does it take for you to say yes? A answer
5. How do you want a guy to flirt with you? By touching my hehe
6. After you're going out with a guy, what activities do you want to do with him? Go to the movies , just spend quality time with this special guy xx
1. What do you look for in a guy? Humor! And the ability to talk to him for real, not just about the weather or the current football rankings.
2. If a guy wants to talk to you for the first time, what kind of approach (his approach) makes you want to get to know him? Confidence is good, but cockyness gets nowhere with me. If a guy comes up to me thinking he is the mac daddy I gurantee he'll never be shut down quicker then when I do it!
3. What kinds of gifts to you prefer from a boyfriend? Anything personal. My "friend" or whatever our relationship burns me cds with new music he knows I'll like, and brings me lunch when I'm at work. Simple things like that make me happy.
4. When a guy asks you out, what does it take for you to say yes? He has to be witty, and show that his plans will allow you to have a good time. And Im usually friends with a guy before we date. There's still that attraction, but by being friends awhile first you can sometimes avoid a disaster.
5. How do you want a guy to flirt with you? The biggest thing is he has to be himself. Pick up lines off the internet show nothing about who he is.
6. After you're going out with a guy, what activities do you want to do with him?After you've already gotten thru the awkwardness of a new person, do stuff where you can get to know eachother and still have fun! Outdoor concert or festivals, just hanging out, etc. Its also really cool to get to know someones friends.
1. What do you look for in a guy? Nice hair, nice smile, nice body, really hot, really sweetQuote:
Originally Posted by xmarksthespot
2. If a guy wants to talk to you for the first time, what kind of approach (his approach) makes you want to get to know him? He comes to my locker everyday and he makes EYE CONTACT and he carries my books. So cute.
3. What kinds of gifts to you prefer from a boyfriend? I don't really care. If he writes me notes, that's good enough. :]
4. When a guy asks you out, what does it take for you to say yes? A kiss on the cheek and a hug
5. How do you want a guy to flirt with you? Smile a lot, make eye contact, be sweet, Don't JERK OFF.
6. After you're going out with a guy, what activities do you want to do with him? Going to the movies is always fun.
This information is based on what my friends and I like .We like a guy that is nice, kind with everyone not just with us selves because they like us. A guy that doesn’t flirt with every single girl even if he doesn’t like them. This varies, so I’ll say I like a guy that is responsible that has goals, and that likes to learn. Pays attention in class, takes notes, stuff like that. I don’t like guys that have no personal hygiene. A simple “hi, how era you” is unexpected and a nice gesture. Just don’t flirt so noticeable that first time, you don’t want to scare her off. I love flowers, but also pay attention of what she likes, because the gift doesn’t have to be expensive or huge, to make an effect, but rather give something with meaning to her. If a girl doesn’t like you, it doesn’t matter what you do, she will say no, but if in a way she does and she is shy at first, at least for me you just have to insist. A great way for you to flirt, will be behaving like a gentlemen. Open the door for her, you know stuff like that. Because now days guys are not behaving like that, he love it when a guy treats us that way. I can tell you something I don’t like to do when going out with a guy, and that that going to eat. I get all nervous, and I can’t eat in front of him, and /or have no appetite. But again, that’s just me and my friends, because I have known of girls who love it when they ask then to go eat something. Pretty much in general, do something fun that both of you are able to express how they really are. So if you plan to do something out side, tell her an idea of what you will be doing, so she doesn’t appear in heels.
1. What do you look for in a guy?
Well I like someone who respects my boundaries, someone who isn't too clingy but still gives me attention regulary. I like guys who aren't afraid to come up to me and cuddle/kiss or just say hi and chat with me.
2. If a guy wants to talk to you for the first time, what kind of approach (his approach) makes you want to get to know him?
If he has a sense of humour but doesn't go too far with it. If he looks like a really cool guy to be friends with I'd want to be friends with him, and you never know I might get to like him in time.
3. What kinds of gifts to you prefer from a boyfriend?
Anything really as long as it shows that he cares. The best gift I got from my boyfriend (who is now my ex and has been for a long time) was these really delicious chocolates in a pretty red bag on valentines day
4. When a guy asks you out, what does it take for you to say yes?
As long as I know the guy lol. If he comes up to me and asks me out face to face then that shows that he has guts and bravery and I like that in a guy lol
5. How do you want a guy to flirt with you?
Ummmm just any type of flirting really lol. As long as it isn't the type of flirting where he touches me in bad places there's just no sign of respect in that unless I let him do it and want him to
6. After you're going out with a guy, what activities do you want to do with him?
Movies, swimming pool or just chilling at his or my house
Hope I could be of any help
1. What do you look for in a guy?Quote:
Originally Posted by xmarksthespot
Aesthetics always come first, if I don't like how a person looks then I'll never fully appreciate them. But a nice, funny, and sarcastic personality are very important as well. I want someone who wants to have fun.
2. If a guy wants to talk to you for the first time, what kind of approach (his approach) makes you want to get to know him?
I want him to make eye contact and act intrested when I reply, mostly. The approach can be anything from a side-comment to a question, "i like how you wore your hair today, how come you don't do it like that so often?" "i'm going to bomb tommorow's quiz, what about you?"
3. What kinds of gifts to you prefer from a boyfriend?
If a guy goes out of his way to buy me something like lotion or perfume, that's extra credit in my book. But a flower or a card are enough for me.
4. When a guy asks you out, what does it take for you to say yes?
I have to really be able to see myself with them. This means I have to like them and I have to be pretty sure my friends won't slaughter me on sight if I show up somewhere with him.
5. How do you want a guy to flirt with you?
Touch me, tickle me, play with my hair or the little strings that come off my hoodie. Be OBVIOUS.
6. After you're going out with a guy, what activities do you want to do with him?
Go out to eat, go to a movie... but a creative guy would take me to the zoo or for a walk in the park. I don't want to do the same stuff all the time.
Close my eyes and imagine him... - breath -... All right here it goes... :pQuote:
Originally Posted by xmarksthespot
1- I look for a guy who is respectful, sweet, funny, loving, and honest.
2- I like it when the guy smiles to me, when he shows up wherever I am, (the sweet/small things before the approach are important to me) after he smiles and I know he's interested, he can walk up and say hello and after that the conversation will flow on its own. Jokes are important, laughter is the key to my heart, but not to the extent he's plain silly.
3- Anything from the heart, it's the thought that counts. If he knows how much I love white roses then I'd love for him to keep sending me white roses
4- I guess I would want him to mean whatever he says, and not have him memorize some cheap lines... play with my hair, hold my hand... things that are sweet and heartfelt
5- Movies, dinner, beach, ice-skating, teach me something I don't know and he's a pro at. But most importantly walk together.. When you're at night and few people are around and we're walking hand in hand, you can't go wrong.
1. funny in whatever they do, but not annoying.Quote:
Originally Posted by xmarksthespot
2. a deffinately sexii walk, lol. Not stupid. (:
3. umm. Jewelry's nice. But it's better if you write a poem, or story.
4. say the question "will u go out with me" give her a puppy dog look and smile. Big smile.
5. make fun of her a little bit, but smile & laugh, then make fun of yourself;
6. walking. Holding hands. And watching a sunset. (oh and food doesn't work! Girls HATE eating in front of guys)
1. A good personalityQuote:
Originally Posted by xmarksthespot
2. Just talk to her as if you have been friends ie;"so,that test today was hard wasn't it?"
3. As long as it comes from the heart.
4. I have to genuinly like the guy... and I have to know that he won't play me or hurt me. Because frankly a guy who even thinks he's a thug isn't worth my time... because he won't be real with me... I want a man not a little boy
5. confident but not being full of themselves
6. picnics, laser tag, bowling, eating out, driving around blasting music, horse back riding, movies, just hanging out :)
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