Originally Posted by woobie
My husband choked and threw our daughter threw our kitchen wall in August, we filed dom. viol. charge against him. The court ordered him not to drink or to do drugs, no contact etc.... My problem now is that I have seen his car at several of his favorite bars, I have called the proscutors office to let them know and they said he is allowed to go there just not drink. Well lets see...how do you prove that he was drinking unless an cop walks into the bar and catches him? I really don't want to go in to the bar, and if I did go in and he leaves & I check his drink, then what? Can a waitress from the bar write a statement to show in court? or if anyone has other ideas?
thanks