I am a sophomore in high school and I like this senior guy in my school. Last year I went out with this guy who was my age and he was way to imature for me, and wasn't looking for a real relationship, it somethimes seemed to be a friends with benefits thing then a relationship, all he ever wanted was sex, and then he cheated on me. So now I'm trying to find a more mature guy to have a real relationship with
So do you think a senior would go out with a sophomore, do you think his buddies would tease him about it?
I really need some advice
By the way how do I tell/ let this guy know I like him, even start talking to him more

Uuuumm, Im only a freshman, and one of my closest friends is a guy, and he's a senior, so I don't see why he wouldn't at least get to know you... :)))

It happens all the time. But keep in mind that, just because he's a senior, that doesn't necessarily make him any more mature than a sophomore. As for approaching him, maybe get a mutual friend/acquaintance to introduce you.

Guy's usually like a younger girl because they are closer to their maturity level. You should ask him out, I loved when girls asked me out. It shows confidence and that is sexier than a girl wearing only a sports jersey. Well, not really but it's sexy.

I'm a sophomore in college now, so this is a few years back for me, but my high school boyfriend was two years ahead of me. We started dating when I was in 9th grade and he was in 11th, and continued to date until he graduated from high school and went away to college.

I don't think it's a big deal, but you have to play your cards right. Don't come on too strong. As far as talking to him, maybe try to find him on myspace and add him, or make an effort to say hello in passing until things get friendlier.

I say go for it. What do you have to lose?

Sorry but if you really want a mature guy maybe you should look for older than senior in high school. Ive always dated older guys, the maturity, and strong presence of an older man has just always been really attractive. Not all girls are like that, but a lot of the successful relationships Ive seen have been between an older guy and younger girl...

But if this guy really is mature like you say, go for it! :) you could let him know through a friend, or a text, or just walk straight up to him and say hey maybe if the both of us can find some time we can catch a coffee sometime ;)

Most marriages are between a man that is usually around two to four years older than she is, so therefore you dating a Senior seems about right to me. You also mentioned the friend with benefits thing. You never have to have dates with a guy of any age for that reason, you are the one that is in control of that, so do ever loose it.

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Originally Posted by classicalpepzee

I am a sophmore in highschool and i like this senior guy in my school. last year i went out with this guy who was my age and he was way to imature for me, and wasnt looking for a real relationship, it somethimes seemed to be a friends with benifits thing then a relationship, all he ever wanted was sex, and then he cheated on me. so now im trying to find a more mature guy to have a real relationship with
so do u think a senior would go out with a sophmore, do u think his buddies would tease him about it?
i really need some advice
by the way how do i tell/ let this guy know i like him, even start talking to him more

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Ok! First thing first, what I seen and experince about gilrs going out with guys other then them is not preaty.Ask yourself this:What if he live to collage and you can seee him more as you used to?how do I know I can trust he words?What if he tells me to trust him and he sames to always have a sample answer for everything,how do I know his not laying?
-How to talk to him-
-well simple you work yourself up, but he has to have the same matureness as you or a little more.

Now is your life do it if you want,but if I were to give you an answer I'll say nooo!!
But if you do Know him for at least 4 month before going out with him.