OK so we have been going out nine months now and I love her so much and I think she loves me still but lately things have been really strange. 70% of the time when I call she doesn't answer and later makes a convenient excuse about it. She hardly ever calls me anymore she doesn't text me anymore and I just feel like she doesn't want to see or talk to me anymore, we used to see each other every day and spend all our time together now she seems to not care and not want to be with me anymore. Does this mean I should give her space and let her decide when she wants to see me. Please help me this is really killing me.

She maybe be seeing a new guy, I don't want you thinking that right away but she might be confused on who to keep you or him... but you need to do more searching and really find out what she's doing cause if she seems to love you, she wouldn't be doing this to you.

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Originally Posted by maninneedofhelp

ok so we have been going out nine months now and i love her so much and i think she loves me still but lately things have been really strange. 70% of the time when i call she doesnt answer and later makes a convenient excuse about it. she hardly ever calls me anymore she doesnt text me anymore and i just feel like she doesnt want to see or talk to me anymore, we used to see each other every day and spend all our time together now she seems to not care and not want to be with me anymore. does this mean i should give her space and let her decide when she wants to see me. please help me this is really killing me.

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I want to say that she may have lost interest of you or she's bored of you. In the worst case senario she may have her eyes on someone else. It sucks but it's also kind of happening to me but we work it out than it repeats. Just ask yourself if you want what's going on currently in your relationship. Talk to her see what's up. Ya Know, but dude I hope things work out.

Turn love into friendship

Whatever her reasons maybe the best thing is to stop contacting her. Then if she is still interested in you she will call you.

She or anybody need not tell you the answer friend, the message is straight and clear. Let it go, you will get over this. But she should come straight out and tell you rather then do this to you.