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  • Oct 4, 2007, 08:12 PM
    lost??
    She broke up with me and got mad at me?
    My girlfriend recently broke up with me. We were together for over 2 years. Of course at first I tried to stop her (I didn't beg), but she told me she wasn't happy and didn't know what she wanted so finally I said OK I understand, said bye and then left. I didn't do anything to bring this on and have been great to her. As soon as I leave I start getting texts like "you make me sick", " youre an as***** and a d***" and just about every else you could call a person. Then she starts iming me saying stuff I didn't even do anything. If she broke up with me then whys she pissed at me?
  • Oct 4, 2007, 08:16 PM
    Cher13
    My guess would be that she expected you to put up a fight for her but you just said "ok"
  • Oct 4, 2007, 08:18 PM
    nauticalstar420
    The only person that knows why she is mad at you is her. Ask her, she needs to tell you. She shouldn't be calling you names like that for no apparent reason. It sounds to me like if she is that quick to jump to name calling, you are better off anyway, especially since she didn't even tell you what you did wrong.
  • Oct 4, 2007, 08:21 PM
    lost??
    No I did fight for her. I forgot to add the part that this has been going on for like 3 months and every time I gave it all I had. I'm just tired of fighting and puttin up with it anymore. Its so immature. I would love to know what she thinks I did wrong though cause I sure as hell don't know what it was
  • Oct 4, 2007, 08:54 PM
    talaniman
    The best thing you can do is what you have done. Leave her to her anger. A person who goes to those lengths of emotional upheaval, is immature and lacks communication skill necessary for a healthy relationship. Bet a dollar she has hardly any clue as to what you have done wrong. If she knows, and can't express it in an adult way, then you are better off disappearing from her life.
  • Oct 9, 2007, 09:28 PM
    lost??
    I don't know if we're together or what but I went over there tonight to hang out. Now she thinks she pregnant. She said she thinks she's about 4 days late, she never kept good track of her period. She used to get freaked out about it all the time but we've always used condoms so I don't think she is. I've tried to be there for her but its hard because she won't talk about it. She refuses to take a test... she says she wants to wait until the end of the week. Anyway she started another fight about it tonight and told me to leave. Again I tried to stay but it was no use. So I said alrite ill leave let me know how the test goes. I just don't know what to do. Any suggestions?
  • Oct 9, 2007, 10:07 PM
    talaniman
    If she knows, and can't express it in an adult way, then you are better off disappearing from her life.

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