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:mad: Hey everyone, I was just wondering if anyone had some tips and advice on attracting a lot of girls. I really like a few girls and I haven't had a girlfriend in almost a year and I really miss being in a relationship, any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Just be yourself. Acting like something you are not in order to attract girls will attract the wrong kind of girls. You want someone that will like you for who you are, not who you act to be.
Have you talked a lot to these girls that you like? What do you think they think of you?
Yeah I have talked to them. I don't know if they like me. I can't tell if they are just shy or if they are being evasive.Quote:
Originally Posted by nauticalstar420
Well how do they act? Do they act like they try to avoid you, or do they just act a little shy around you, but still friendly?
If any of them act like they might like you, ask them if they'd like to get together after school and work on homework together, or something like that. This will give you an opportunity to get to know them better away from a school setting and away from a bunch of other people too. Just make sure there is always a parent accompanying you in whatever you do, if you do decide to do something after school. :)
Well one of them I have really liked for almost two years and she doesn't really know it. After a whil I met her say like 3 months we were really good friends, and I told her that I kind of liked her. She sounded like she liked me too, just the way she talked to me and the way she smiled when ever she saw me. When I told her I liked her she said "Oh..... well I'm really flattered that you like me but I don't really know how we could be together, since we're not in the same classes". She was still really nice and sweet to me after that until my three friendships ended a year later, then we really didn't talk. We really couldn't talk seeing how one of the twin's best friends threatened me that If I don't stop trying to apologize and talk to them then she was going to send her boyfriend (At the time, and he wasn't with either one of the twins, he was with their best friend) to beat me up. The girl I like... Her twin sister is nice to me, and the other one is kind of nice at the moment ( the one I really like), reason being I say hi to her whenever I have band class because she is in it, and that is every other day in school. I say hi and she says hi but if I say anything more to her she doesn't really answer me, like these little one or two worded answers. Probably because about a year ago something happened between me and one of her best friends, all of friendships with the other girl and the twins ended. But not to long ago I apologized to each one of them seperatley and asked them if we could be friends again and they said "Yes". I don't know what I should do, I don't know if I should let the friendship grow again, tell her how I feel about her In a friendly and non-creepy way, (probably I shouldn't) or if I should tell the girl I like how it feels when she is being evasive. Not in a negative way though. I don't know what I should do. It isn't really a dating matter, it's more or less like building a relationship in a way that could get her to like me more then a friend. But if she doesn't ever like me like that, it will really hurt me again, but that's okay. I just don't want to hurt like that anymore. I've been hurting for so long in a bad way, I just don't want to feel like that anymore.Quote:
Originally Posted by nauticalstar420
Be yourself. No offence, but if she didn't like cause you peeps arnt in the same classes, it sounds to me that she isn't worth it. Trust me, acting like you are hurting openly is a bad first turnoff. But it is OK to hurt. If you let people into your life, nothing is nailed down, but get out there! U have to live life, even if it means hurting a bit. Trust me a girl likes a guy who's sensitive and strong (in mind) :)
1. We love you when you cuddle with us
2. a kiss on the cheek is definitely yes
3.we want you to put your arms around us at the movies
4.we don't care if you're the strongest guy in the world
5.size doesn't matter so don't tell us
6.we don't look at our best so get over it
7.we shouldn't have to plan anything
8. were always ready to talk so call us
9.were not perfect so deal with it
10. We love surprises
11. The little things you do mean the most
12. Were not always girly girly
12. We can like boys stuff too
14.cursing and fighthing don't impress us
15. Don't tell us who is hot because we don't care
16. Don't be mean to us to get our attention
17. We can tell when your not listening so listen up
18. When we say we are cold that's our invitation to come closer
19.hugs mean more sometimes
20. We need your advice sometimes so don't be afraid to give it
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