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  • Oct 4, 2007, 11:25 AM
    jess2007
    Age diffrence is it a big deal?
    Hi, my question is My husband and I have been married 1 yr now, and I was wondering if there is a big diffrence because of our age I am 26 and he is 34.?
  • Oct 4, 2007, 11:26 AM
    ScottGem
    Not at those ages.
  • Oct 4, 2007, 11:27 AM
    iloveLf221
    That's not THAT big of a difference, he's not in his "early" years, that's all, are you going to have kids?
  • Oct 4, 2007, 11:46 AM
    shygrneyzs
    Eight years is not a big difference when you are 26 and he is 34.
  • Oct 5, 2007, 07:55 AM
    donf
    I beg to differ with the other responders to this post.

    Eight years difference an be a huge difference is his developing and maintaining personal traits and habits.

    However, on the plus side, I do agree with the responders your ability to work towards resolving problems should not be Herculean because of your ages.
  • Oct 5, 2007, 08:00 AM
    mr.yet
    Age doesn't make a difference, as long as there is trust and communications between them. I'm 54, my wife is 41, married 17 years and to this day not one single argument. We discuss, not fight.
  • Oct 5, 2007, 08:28 AM
    donf
    Yes, and we have "Lively Debates" instead of fights. But that's after 42 years.

    All I'm sating is that the gentleman in this thread has had 8 extra years to become attached to his habits, making them harder to break.

    There is a 2 month difference between my wife and I, that's what I call no difference in age.
  • Oct 5, 2007, 10:00 AM
    Marily
    Im also 26 and my husband is 34, and we are happily married !

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