I had a crush on this girl for a long time. I just saw her again after my ex left me for a new guy. I really don't know much about her but I used to go to school with her. I told her I want to get to know her more and she said that cool but she is not looking for anything more. She broke up with her ex, I don't know the story but she said she is trying to get over him. I didn't ask anymore because I don't want to invade her space. The thing is sometime she seem like she feeling me and other time it feel like she just like o he likes me so I have to be nice, you know. I told her I was going to go see something she set up and she said if I want to go call her she gave me her #. Anyway I'm lost as what am suppose to do now, I said I want to be friend but I want more and she know that, but also I respect her wish.

Talk to her about your confusion. Perhaps she is feeling the same way. Maybe you both need time, more than anything. Don't tie yourself down. Both of you should date others while you deal with the ending of your past relationships, and if you start finding yourselves wanting to make it more exclusive you'll know. I do feel, though, that communication is the key.

Hugs, Didi