What can I do or my man do to have an orgasm that soaks the bed like he likes

You know, pecankisses, not all women ejaculate (female ejaculation) He is wrong in thinking that you can do that at will. Why don't you tell him to become a better lover and find out where your g spot is and then, and only then, it may happen. Isn't he happy just being able to make you orgasm? Tell him that not all women can orgasm.

There is a some disagreement whether there really is a form of 'female ejaculation'. Female ejaculation is believed to be caused by a release of fluid from the Skene's glands. These glands are located inside the urethra. The Skene's gland is similar to the prostate gland in guys. It produces a fluid that is similar to the chemical composition of prostatic fluid -- which is what makes up the majority of semen.

Some women may produce greater amounts of fluid from these glands than others, which explains why some women seem to gush during an orgasm while others many do not.

Remember, not all women will have the capability of ejaculating or certainly not every time they have intercourse. It's not something that takes place every time a female experiences an orgasm either, so it does not reflect the quality or enjoyment of the sexual experience

There is a some disagreement whether there really is a form of 'female ejaculation'. Female ejaculation is believed to be caused by a release of fluid from the Skene's glands. These glands are located inside the urethra. The Skene’s gland is similar to the prostate gland in guys. It produces a fluid that is similar to the chemical composition of prostatic fluid -- which is what makes up the majority of semen.

Some women may produce greater amounts of fluid from these glands than others, which explains why some women seem to gush during an orgasm while others many do not.

Remember, not all women will have the capability of ejaculating or certainly not every time they have intercourse. It's not something that takes place every time a female experiences an orgasm either, so it does not reflect the quality or enjoyment of the sexual experience

3 Positions for great female orgasm

There are three positions that almost insure a long and pleasurable female orgasm. Do not attempt any of the three without adequate foreplay .


The first position has many names, but as mentioned in the Perfumed Garden (a classic Arabic text from the golden age of Arabic Literature), it is called Dok-al-Arz, or “pounding on the spot”.
This position assures 3 important factors in copulation. The first is depth of the penis. The second is the “G-Spot angle” and the third is maximum clitoral stimulation.


To achieve this position the man sits on the edge of the bed, and the woman sits on the man, inserting his penis deeply into her vagina. She then wraps her legs around him, as well as her arms. The couple is free to kiss if desired.


Then the woman begins a slow grinding movement (no thrusting is possible). She is able to stimulate simultaneously her clitoris and G-Spot. The orgasm comes quickly and with great intensity.


Should the man be able to ejaculate into her womb as she is finishing, the result is only intensified. The woman will love the man greatly if performed well.


The second position also has a great many names, but is commonly knows as The Gates of Heaven.


To perform this The woman lies on her back. The man lies or kneels in alignment with the vagina.
The man will hold (or press with his shoulder) the woman's leg(s) upwards to adapt the positioning of the woman's pelvis. This position, as believed by some, achieves a faster and more intense type of female orgasm.


This can be accomplished through lifting the women's leg(s) higher upwards; the deeper the man's penis can fully go in.


Again, there is both clitoral and G-Spot stimulation. Again, there is very little or no thrusting, but a slow and steady grinding movement. If the woman and man can grind in rhythm, the effect is only heightened.


The third position is a variation of the second, and is called Crab on its Back. This position, like the previous two assures maximum clitoral and G-Spot stimulation. This position allows for some thrusting.


The woman lies on her back with a cushion beneath her buttocks, and the man kneels or lies on top of her while pressing her thighs hard against her chest. The vagina will be tighter and the cervix will be pushed forward, so the penis presses against the cervix when thrusting, with a corresponding intensity of sensation. The result is often a very quick and immediate orgasm (or series of orgasms) of the woman.


Achieving satisfaction
The practicing of these three positions will give you and your partner a lot of pleasure and if done correctly can help her achieve wonderful orgasms to enhance and fulfill your relationship with each other.

Well I used to agree with what a few of you all said about NOT ALL WOMEN are capable of "squirting", but a few months ago, my girlfriend and I tried a few different things... and BAM!

She squirted so much, sh*d, even I had to call FEMA.

Seriously... we tried a few things... and while putting one hand on her lower abdomin and applying some light pressure while I went in and out of her... I saw that she was about to explode so I pulled out and started flapping the tip of my penis against her lips repeatedly... and SWWWWWWHOOOOOOOSH! And honestly... she was screaming like never before. Since then, we do similar and different practices that lead to same results.