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Some girls are really self conscious when sex is going to go down so they would prefer the lights off. Is it really that big of a turn off or wouold guys prefer the lights on?
I have a booty. And hips. But I have a little cellulite on my thighs and I think its super embarrassing. I would prefer the lights off but my b.f loves my butt.
What do men think about cellulite?
I feel the same way. I want the lights off but he wants to see my . But I think I am starting to get a little cellulite on the back of my thighs too.. I am kind of self conscious because he actually pointed it out to me.. otherwise it probably would have gone unnoticed to me. So.. people.. help us!
Ah he pointed it out to you?
Yeah, it was horrible! I was getting dressed one time and usually he likes to watch me, then he said "you're starting to get a little cellulite." I really didn't think I had any, but I guess if he pointed it out, I must.
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Originally Posted by KJura88
Ouch! That's not cool. Sounds like you sound great with your booty. Be proud. I bet you wouldn't point out one of his flaws. Maybe you should?
I think every woman has cellulite... even skinny models. I think is just something they are hypersensitive about.
With that said their concern should be less on cellulite than keeping their weight within recommended limits.
I believe that men see what you let them see. If you portray yourself as insecure that's what they see from you. If you don't feel good about yourself, and you start complaining of the different flaws in your body then he begins to notice it. He sees what you want him to see. Portray yourself as secure and with a great self esteem, and he will also see you that way. Work with your personal feelings and insecurities on your own time. Talk to friends and family about it, don't make your guy begin to see you in that same light that you see yourself. Believe in yourself and it will show and spread to others. When we feel good about ourselves it makes other feel attracted and impress by us.Quote:
Originally Posted by csquared
Now on the subject of keeping the lights off when being romantic with a partner. I disagree, you are trying to cover flaws because you think that he sees them. You and only you sees your flaws. Obviously when our love one met us there was more than one thing that attracted them to us. What you have to do is flunt that all the time in his eye. Of course not too obvious about it. Flunt what makes you attractive in his eyes. Use all the pluses you scored with him, and you will have a happily ever after man regardles of the negativity controling your head. Believe me when a man is with the woman he loves intimately, there are too many things going on his head that moment, to stop and look at flaws. They only exist if you want them to ruin your moment.
I think your boyfriend is a superficial jerk. Why would he point that out on his beautiful and young girlfriend. I wouldn't date a guy that notices or points that type of stuff out. You should tell him, he is lucky he gets to see your A$$!
Hello
If a Man Loves you he isn't going to see the Bad (that we all have male and female) all he will see is a sexy lady that he Loves and wants to make happy. Stop worring about how you look think about how you can rock his world and what he can do to rock yours.
Dennis777
I think if a man loves you that he LOVES you. It's not just the body, but the whole package. When he fell in love with you, I bet you were feeling super confident. I don't think men are much different than women in that regard. They love you for who you are, not how you look. Now, they may express concerns about your health if you are overweight. They may even notice the cellulite and new wrinkles as you get older. But do they stop loving you for those things?? NO! They may get tired of your putting yourself down, your negative attitude, etc. but I've never heard of one person who REALLY loved their partner leave them because they had a bit of cellulite or flab!
Relax, have fun, and just be yourself. Don't sweat the small stuff or you will never make it past 40!!
Hugs, Didi
Life's great so turn the lights on and remember you're the greatest woman he'll ever know...
Well to tell you babe this guy (azz in me) don't care and see past the defect... how should I put this if it was me! I be leave the lights on... THERES A GIRL IN THE BED!!
Personally,
Lights on,
It is important that when you love each other that your excepting. There is no need to be self concience of anything.
Everybody has cellulite. Nothing to feel embarrassed about. It does not take away from the beauty of a person inside and outside.
So true DidiQuote:
Originally Posted by grammadidi
You know, if you confident enough in yourself he won't be able to see past that to look at your cellulite. I am a 210 pound woman, so I know a few things about cellulite... my husband would NEVER say anything like that to me because I KNOW I look damn good, and can't see anything but my confidence. He loves it!
She could be the most unattractive person to the majority but to that one person she was sent from above. One can always be replaced.
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