I desperately need advice on what to do about my neighbors! My husband and I bought our house in June of '06. The house next door is rental and we have had problems from the people who are currently renting. The people who live there are husband and wife, they do not have any children. They do however have 2 large dogs(a husky and a chow to be exact) and 2 cats. Every day when I take my 2 year old daughter out to play, or when I walk my dog at night, I hear him yelling and screaming at his dogs. We don't act that way or use that kind of language and I don't appreciate feeling like I can't take my child out to play because of what she will hear. I could count on one hand the number of times I have seen him walk his dogs and he is usually yelling at them for using the bathroom in the house. Obviously, 2 big dogs in a house not being walked is unsanitary. It has started to stink from their house.
He always comes over to borrow my telephone because his has been cut off.At first it didn't bother me, when they first moved in and had not gotten loud yet. But when he comes over at 2:00 in the afternoon and stays on the phone until 4 it's a bit excessive. I have tried nicely to say I am expecting a call and he says he will come back later.I have tried other approaches to that but it just doesn't work and I don't want to be completely rude to him. He has also asked repeatedly to borrow our lawnmower which I have told him I will not do because his grass is so high it would break the mower. There have also been requests for money, tools, dvd player(which he asked to borrow 2 days after they moved in) our car.It's not just a cup of milk or sugar he is wanting to borrow.
The current annoyance that has become a huge problem is that their utilities got shut off because he did not pay them. So there they are with no water, electricity or gas. He comes over every other day and asks if I will let him run an extension cord from our house to his so he can power his window air conditioner, fridge, etc. Every time I have said absolutely not. That is illegal and we would get in serious trouble. He just doesn't seem to get it and I am tired of telling him. Another troubling issue since his utilities have been cut off is that obviously they don't have a toilet without running water, and so every night he takes their pots out in the yard and dumps out the days waste.. from them. Something tells me that is not healthy.
I have been back and forth on the idea of calling the health department, and I am sure I could anonymously report them, first off, I am not sure the health department is the right place to start. If I did report them, I would hate for them to know that it was me. I hate doing things like that to people, but this is a bit much. I have also contemplated calling their landlord. Of course if I do that they will know I called him. I am just not sure what to do. All I know is I have taken as much as I can stand. We work hard to pay our mortgage and can't just pick up and move away because of them. I am sick and tired of him knocking on my door to borrow something, even if I put a note on the door not to knock.I'm tired of listening to the foul language. I'm concerned about the health of his animals, who apparently came from a shelter and were abused by their previous owners and sounds to me like they are being abused again. I am also concerned about their health living in a house with no water or electricity and animals using the bathroom in the house like they do.
What do I do?Should I just let it go for a while and see what happens?Talk to him in some way that might get across to him? Or should I call the health department or the landlord?
I greatly appreciate any advice.
Thanks,
Sara