Brief background, I dated this guy for a little over a year we'll call him Tony and broke up with him. Don't even know why I broke up with him, I think it was more hormonal than anything. Well, I ended up dating this other guy we'll call him Sam shortly after him and get engaged to this other guy even and that didn't work and the entire time I still liked Tony. Now Tony and I are talking again and doing stuff together about once a week sometimes twice a week and about four or five months ago we didn't even talk so it's come a long way. He knows that I really like him, I've told him that I love him even and he says that he likes me, he's just not ready for a commitment and doesn't want the responsibility of a relationship yet, which I understand. On the other hand I have this other guy that is really falling for me, in fact he just used the starting to fall in love with me and it's only been a couple of weeks. He even knows that I still like Tony but doesn't care, insists on waiting for me to make up my mind. Should I just let Tony go and give it a chance with this absoluting great guy or wait for Tony which I don't know how long that could be. I have always liked Tony but I'm wondering if you could end up being someone you never truly get over.

Your just like me I tried to get my ex girlfriend back to and I asked her out and she said no and I moved on and two days later she ask me out and I said no I'm dating someone... so just move on

Thanks, that's basically what I'm doing, it's really hard at times though, I'm sure you know that though.