I'm 17 and at the beginning of the school year I liked this guy and so we went out for awhile (2 weeks) and I somehow feel in love with him. He dumped me because I was hugging other guys. After we broke up I heard some rumors going around school that he was having sex and kissing on other girls' necks and it killed me because I am still in love with him. Every night I cry and people keep telling me "Get over it because he doesnt give a crap about you" but I don't want to believe that. Then yesterday at the mall I heard him saying to his friends that he wouldn't get back with me, he would just me. Which kind of hurted my feelings. I want him back and I will do whatever it takes. I just want him back so someone please tell me how. Thanks :confused:

I want my ex back too. Over 4 days she left me for someone else, and now on the fourth day she is just madly in love with him and I'm a mess. Everyone is telling me to get over it, but its hard and bottom line is I don't want to.

I am in the same boat as you only my guy is dating my used-to-be best friend. The one thing to do is try not to think about him and focus on another guy even though it might kill you. Also make sure that you are not around him when he is flirting,kissing,or making out with another girl. Trust me it hurts.

You should really move on and find someone who would appreciate you. I was once in the same situation until I realized "why would i want to be with someone who doest want to be with me or even respect me"... move on and find someone else.theres more fish in the sea and once you move on you would look back and ask yourself "why was i wasting time when i have someone better"

Give him time if he says he doesn't want you. Don't look for him or especially beg him even though its hard also because he doesn't diserve it and don't cry in front f him. You have to seem strong and show him that he was just something small you came over. People hate it when you beg them after they tell you NO!! Its annoying you he'll just get even more mad at you and want you less. I say give him two to three weeks if he doesn't call you then he's really over and if he does then its you dicision. But please don't make yourself look weak and powerless over him it will make him seem like the winner when it should be you.

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Heard him saying to his friends that he wouldn't get back with me, he would just me.

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After knowing he doesn't care, you should love yourself enough to let this go and move on with your life.