How long do LDR's usually last? Especially when the two people met in a strip club? He is 36 she is 25 with a kid. Do LDR's usually last long especially when the man is in a dif country doing god knows what with god knows who. Does the man usually move on or does the women usually move on ?

About a day and 1/2. how long did the relationship last in person before they separated? And when both people are the type that goes to strip clubs I would not even give them a long relationship if they were dating in person.

She works as a waitress at a strip club. He flew in from out of town for his buddys birthday and that is how they met. A week later she was in Florida ith him and visited for a additional three weeks after the first week. So total she has spent 3 weeks with him.. since end of July. She has school now and supposedly she will only be able to see him once a month. But if this guy can pik up a grl from my town he could do this anywhere including his home town.. She was in a 3 yr relationship and met this guy and just left with no warning.. She even asked her ex before they broke up to marry her now this.

Apparently he has a lot of money so do you think she just lovesthe fact of the money and security. I mean they live so far apart. She has a kid what is udde thinking.

Anyone?

Without truly knowing the situation, I'm going to go out on a limb and say that she is probably in it for the money. Is this a friend of yours? I really doubt this could end anything but bad.

I doubt there is much chance of a long term thing.

If the two people met in the strip club, they probably haven't really had the chance to get to know one another. Although encounters in this type of situation can seem promising, they really aren't. Why? Because the attraction is very superficial. There is no history, no building of trust, etc. How well can you truly get to know someone in a strip club? They are usually noisy and pretty choatic. His interest was probably very superficial in the situation too. Men go to strip clubs usually for one reason... to enjoy the scenery. Unfortunately sweetie, you were part of the scenery. Also, you really don't want to meet a guy in a strip club anyway. I know it may be difficult meeting people because of being a single mom, but there are better ways to meet them. Have you recently been separated from the baby's father... or have you been apart for a while?

This is the father. My ex did this. We broke up and she claimed she met him a week prior. I was just asertaining what will happen/

The whole story is here,
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/search...archid=1872091
Its unhealthy to dwell on the actions of others, since no one has the facts, neither do you. You have asked this question before, did you think it would be different asking it again?