In the last 3 months I haven't had a period, except a month in a half ago I had (spotting) for 2 days and it was light I still haven't gotten a period, and the HPT was negative? My stomach is either bloaded or bigger, so I'm confused? Please inform me. Oh yeah Im 21 yrs old with no children yet. Im also with my fiancé and we have been having sex using withdrawl?