I mean, wouldn't you like if the roles were switched? : ) Guys will keep trying to get with a girl they think is pretty, they don't give up! : P Wouldn't you like that?:p

I think it all depends on if the guy likes the girl doing the pursuing...
If so, he would probably like it.
If not, he probably wouldn't.
Just like us girls ;)

I find it very flattering when a girl pursues me. Knowing she's interested helps guys
Who really have no clue how she feels about him, used to rejection. No no no


Be unpredictable very flirty and go back and forth with pursue a little then back off and make him chase you... it's fun, and you change tease and then play hard to get.. in a fun "i'm just messing with you"... it creates great chemistry.

So chase, and be chased... don't settle for one. Change it up, and make sure to initiate sometimes too!

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Originally Posted by biggsie

I find it very flattering when a girl pursues me. Knowing she's interested helps guys
who really have no clue how she feels about him, used to rejection. no no no


Be unpredictable very flirty and go back and forth with pursue a little then back off and make him chase you... it's fun, and you change tease and then play hard to get.. in a fun "i'm just messing with you" .... it creates great chemistry.

so chase, and be chased... don't settle for one. change it up, and make sure to initiate sometimes too!

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Ha!! Thanks! We'll I want to talk to this guy (can only myspace him though since the only other place to talk to him would be at his job, and I can't do that! To many peps around:D ) anyway, I wrote him a [paper] letter and had it sent by someone to his place (I've since re-thought that since I didn't do it myself), anyway, I soon found out he was taken, though in my opinion, he showed interest in me, (either talking to me about the cool shirt I had on, or I'd catch him staring and then quickly look down when I looked up, trying to talk to me some how, etc) but I never got a response from the letter, obviously due to the fact he had a girlfriend, but, I do think he's single now and I want to try one more time. What do you think, aren't those the things you do when you are interested in a girl? Shouldn't I try again?

Okay... I am 18 and yes I pusrue girls. I am pursing a girl now. It feels like the wrong thing to do because the roles are switched but.. I don't know... We do pursue.

If anyone is too persistent it comes across as stalking. Not good.

I like the pursuing

Its great chasing a girl, and great to be chased. I have always, always dated and been most attracted to women who were confident and unashamed to go after what they want.

And in those cases when I was somewhat attracted to a woman, but maybe on the fence... if I had a hint that she was interested back, it always amped up my interest.

Not all guys think alike. No guarantees.

But in my book, a confident woman is one of the sexiest things in the world.

Put me to the wall, honey, and ill chase you down right back.

lol... well for me I don't like playing game... especially "play hard to get " lol if they play that they better just take their heels and run on their own XD

I like girls who just simple and speak their mind and not playing game ^^

Confidence is good. Girl can ask a guy out. But if he disagrees, she should also show grace. Never let them see you sweat. You've done your part, didn't work, move on.

So there should be a balance.

I like a girl pursuing me :D

I like it but it depends on how its done.

I agree more with the first answer... It all depends on the girl that's doing the pursuing. IF it's a girl I've been wanting to talk to for awhile, then hell you. I'll play the game. Since she's showing interest, I'm definitely going to show interest right back. Smile at me, flirt with me, "accidentallY" rub up on me, I'm not dumb... In fact you probably even boost my confidence knowing the fact that there's a great chance were going to hookup and get to know each other, trust me all guys will be thankful for the extra confidence... However... If its a girl we don't have an interest in....then no. Just like women, we find it very desperate and creepy. Example. One of my female co-workers, although it took awhile to figure out she was into me, was and still pursuing me. Just yesterday day she asked me to go to happy hour with her after work. I said no... I said no to this girl numerous times in a "nice way" (meaning I lied my teeth off, saying I need to do something else... that's why we lie to get out of a situation) I even was frank to this girl saying that we are not compatible and us being more than co-worker buddies was highly unlikely... But for some reason she doesn't get it, she'll start saying things like "i don't know how much i like u because we haven't had sex yet" or "when you texted me you were gonna have dinner with a friend...i stayed home and started to watch the notebook" "yet?" the notebook no that doesn't turn me on, that frightens me.

Ok I have a boyfriend and I absolutely love him but no matter if everyone knows it I still get guys who want to date me! In my opinion I'm plain and I could drop a few(I might just be self-concious)! One guy says my BF doesn't treat me right and he keeps trying to make me ditch my BF for him! I think It's insanely flattering and I don't see why guys wouldn't admire it as well! That is as long as you don't go texting and calling him every chance you get!! It becomes Stalker-ish at some point and you start to scare the poor boy!
Hope it helps!