Originally Posted by Nyorovita
wife & i had been legally married for 9 years and have one son. we have been on separation 4 the past 3 years. she deserted the home saying i was abusive and cheating on her that which i admit. i have went back to her seekin reconciliation and she was refusing but i have changed. i hacked into her emails recently and discovered that she was having sex with a certain man who has since been married two months after we separated and that she is going out with a married man. i have since discovered she was receiving money from a pastor who once suspected to be having a relationship during our marriage days. this was being done without the knowledge of that pastor's wife. should i pursue reconciliation or forget about it? will my son not hurt me.