Originally Posted by singlemom1107
Okay well I had been dating my ex for 4 years. This past year has been really bad. We broke up a lot, then we tried to work things out again. Towards the end of the relationship he became very verbally and physically abusive. About 3 months ago I found out I was pregnant. He promised he was going to change. Our entire relationship, I have been battling him about his drinking problem. I don't want my child around it. So about a month ago I broke up with him. Two days later I went to his house to talk to him, and found another girl in his bed. I at first I was really upset. He ended up cheating on her with me. Then I would tell her and she did not believe me. About a week ago, he called me 20 times one day and 17 the following, saying baby I miss you and asked me to come over. Then I went over one night after work and talked to him, and he was like i'm sorry but i'm going to see her. I don't understand why he is playing games with me? If he doesn't want to work things out then why did he call me? Please help me with some advise to either get over him or try to get him back for the baby.