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  • Sep 25, 2007, 08:29 PM
    Miss lovley
    It's me again but not about.
    A long distance relationship
    Well kind of but noo

    Okay here is the story

    Guy 1
    Im talking to this guy online and we have
    Evolved our relationship to text messaging
    But since we did that I hardly ever talk to him now
    And I like him a lot but I'm scared to because I'm afraid
    I'll get attached and hurt donno what to do about him:confused:
    HELPPPPPP

    Guy 2
    I've known him for a year
    And I've liked him ever since I laid my eyes on him
    And I have done cute little things to let him know
    That I like him so I'm sure he knows
    Also my friends have had conversations with him about me
    Okay so I put my feelings for him to the side because I wasn't sure
    What was going to happen
    Then today I ran into him and my feelings were no
    Longer to the side and he has been on my mind since
    He lives around the corner from me but we no longer
    Go to the same school :(
    I want to try to talk to him but I do not have his phone numbber
    And when ever I go over to his street he is out but with all of his siblings
    I'm really shy when it comes to him



    WHAT DO I DO



    I'm so confused about both of them
  • Sep 26, 2007, 04:20 PM
    peaceom
    Does guy1 live around you? If not I would just let it go. And its hard for me to say that cause my boyfriend lives 7hrs from me[but I've known him for about 4months now].. I manage to see him quite a bit actually. So if you see him I guess maybe go for it depending on how close[emotionally] you are.
    If guy2 has msn add him or myspace even and just talk to him on there just be like "hey i havent talked to you in awhile how are things?"
    And see what happens from there
    Hope that helps some.

    :]
  • Sep 26, 2007, 05:03 PM
    GlindaofOz
    I say forget the online guy he seems to be distracted at the moment.

    How old is guy #2? Please don't tell me its another mid-20's guy. You kill Miss Lovely with the older boys :)
  • Sep 26, 2007, 05:11 PM
    RaineAndrews
    It isn't safe to meet people over the internet, and you can't "love" someone you just talk to on the internet. There is nothing but what he weaves for you to fall in love with.
  • Sep 26, 2007, 07:20 PM
    peaceom
    I'm sorry I have to disagree with you raine.. my aunt and uncle met over the internet and have been married for 5yrs+[and going on strong] as long as you eventually get to where you don't just talk online it could work out depending on how mature the both of you are.
  • Sep 26, 2007, 07:34 PM
    Homegirl 50
    I say leave the Internet guy alone. You don't really know him anyway and he is not intersted enough to call you.
    The other guy you know. He's not too old for you is he?
  • Sep 26, 2007, 08:53 PM
    Miss lovley
    Guy 2 is 16er17 not sure so no I would say he is not too old and the internet guy is gone
  • Sep 26, 2007, 08:59 PM
    Homegirl 50
    Good girl
  • Sep 26, 2007, 09:09 PM
    Miss lovley
    I think I'm done with dating in general
  • Sep 26, 2007, 09:11 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    While of course people can meet over the interent, for every perfect love story ( I meet my wife online 10 years ago)
    You will also find the stories of the married man who lies just to meet wormen to have sex with, or marrried women wanting a wild meeting.
    While I found my wife, I also found some real nut cases also.
  • Sep 26, 2007, 09:20 PM
    Homegirl 50
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Miss lovely
    i think im done with dating in general

    You're not going to miss out on much. Concentrate on school and keeping your head on straight. The right person will come along when you least expect.
    You're a smart young lady. Wait for the right one, don't mess around with the riff-raff.
  • Sep 29, 2007, 09:39 PM
    Miss lovley
    Isn't messing with the riff raff part of being young?
  • Sep 30, 2007, 05:45 AM
    Homegirl 50
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Miss lovley
    isn't messing with the riff raff part of being young?

    No. Messing with riff raff is not using your head. There are decent young men and then there's riff raff.
  • Sep 30, 2007, 05:59 PM
    mwilliams15
    Best advice I can give you.. Don't DATE IN HIGH SCHOOL! Its so not worth it. Im 19 and in my second year of college. I had a few long term relationships in high school and I regret it. You should be hanging out with your girl friends and having a good time!

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