I am 7 months pregnant and all of the sudden the father of the baby is deciding to go overseas as a civilian and work in Iraq. I don't want to raise this baby all by myself. Should I stay with him and wait a year until he comes back? Or should I move on and find someone else to be with that will support and be there for his upcoming baby? I love my boyfriend that I am with so much and he means so much to me. I just can't believe he wants to go away and he has a newborn baby coming on the way. What do I do?

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Originally Posted by Krystina1987

I am 7 months pregnant and all of the sudden the father of the baby is deciding to go overseas as a civilian and work in Iraq. I dont want to raise this baby all by myself. Should I stay with him and wait a year until he comes back? Or should I move on and find someone else to be with that will support and be there for his upcoming baby? I love my boyfriend that I am with so much and he means so much to me. I just can't believe he wants to go away and he has a newborn baby coming on the way. What do I do?

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There may be more going on in his decidion to go over seas, he may feel that is his only way to provide for you and you child, you need to talk to him, seriously and tell him how you feel and find out his plans opions and ideas...